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Hwasin: Controller of the Heart 

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[It's men vs. women now!]

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I am talking here. Listen.

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I hate men who test women.

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- But it's okay for women to do that.
- You talk as if nothing matters!

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You make us lie.

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Let me go! Let go!

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- I make her feel that I care about her.
- Wow, aren't you proud?

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- I am growing tired of you.
- I am so done with  you.

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[A battle has begun!]

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[We'll show you the survey results now!]

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We use data based on your votes.

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Please participate in the surveys.

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You know you can complete
the surveys, right?

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Please participate in
the surveys right now.

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You can become a master
of hearts and minds.

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We have a comprehensive look into the
minds of Korean people here at Hwasin!

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- Please.
- Show us the problem!

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[Recognizing a problem]

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[Kim Kyung Ho, Kahi, Noh Sa Yeon,
G-Dragon, Dae Sung]

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[Today's place is...]

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[A movie theater!]

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Today, no matter what... I'll ask
Hee Sun to be my girlfriend.

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But I feel so nervous...

25
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Hee Sun, Hee Sun, how
about going out with me?

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No... Hee Sun, what do you
think about going out with me?

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- Hee Sun...
- What?

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Oh, it's nothing.

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- What were you doing?
- Hi.

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It's nothing.

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I heard the movie is so scary.
I am so nervous about it.

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- But I am nervous because of you...
- What? What were you saying?

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No, it's nothing.

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- Have some popcorn.
- Really? Okay.

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Looks delicious.

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- What? Do I have something on my face?
- Oh, it's nothing.

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Oh.

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Come on, why do you eat it that way?

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Oh, seriously.

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I'm thirsty.

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- Did you just get a drink?
- I did. Drink mine.

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- I'll just have one sip, okay?
- Here, I'll hand it to you.

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- No, I'll do it myself.
- What?

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[Falling]

45
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Oh my gosh.

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What is that?

47
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Who does that?

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Oh, I feel so much better.

49
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The movie is starting.

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- I'm sorry.
- No, it's okay.

51
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- I'm sorry.
- No, I don't mind at all.

52
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You're acting strange today. You've
been talking nonsense. What's wrong?

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- You know, I've always wanted to tell you this...
- Yes, tell me.

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- Be honest with me, okay?
- Okay.

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Don't try to be nice and lie to me.
Just tell me the truth, okay?

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I got it. Tell me already.

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Hee Sun...

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- I...
- Okay, what?

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I... I...

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I love you.

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- What?
- How's your size?

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- What's that? Don't ever call me again!
- No!

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No, I meant... Hee Sun!

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I meant how about going out with me?

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Hee Sun, I meant... what do you
thinking about going out with me?

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Ah, come on. Come on now!

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Okay, everyone.

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There are many times when it just doesn't
work out after things start to heat up.

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That special someone who
won't get any closer to you.

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The way to make sure that
person becomes yours.

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I wonder what it will take.

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[Hwasin]

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Yes, it's a good day.

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- GD is the master of the dating game.
- Yes, he is.

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- I've seen him doing it.
- Ah, really?

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- You've seen him doing his thing?
- Yes.

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I have a lot to tell today.

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I know GD and Hee Sun have known
each other for a long time, right?

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What if GD was in this situation?

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Please have a seat.

81
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How would you do it?

82
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Have a seat. You're waiting for her.

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I'll confess my love. Today I'll do it...

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- You're here already?
- Granny...

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Sorry I'm late.

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- I hear this is a great movie.
- I heard that too, but...

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- I think these are in the way, right?
- Ah, that's right!

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Wow! That's it!

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Let's watch the movie.

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[Lying down]

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[My God!]

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- That's right!
- He looks so rich.

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So cool, Kwon Ji Yong!

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Look at this... this.

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He placed his drink further away...

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So you...

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- Let's do the part where you reach for the drink.
- I'll have to lie down straight.

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That's what I mean.

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- When I looked at this I thought --
- He's a genius.

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He knows the subtleties.

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All Sa Yeon was looking at was the popcorn.
All she wanted was some popcorn.

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I don't have any other
memories besides that.

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I went to movie theaters only in groups.

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- How would you have done it, Dae Sung?
- Ah, I think...

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- It's Dae Sung style.
- Looking forward to it.

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- I'll pretend we're at a romantic movie.
- A romantic movie?

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- Not a scary movie?
- No.

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I just found out about this myself...

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I'll confess my love today.

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[Same team but such a different vibe.]

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- Dae Sung, you're here. Sorry I'm late.
- It's okay.

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I'm excited.

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- Let's watch the movie.
- Shall we?

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His breathing is...

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This is a part of my performance too.

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Damn!

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- That scared me. What's wrong?
- I feel frustrated.

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I feel so frustrated.

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Touch me here.

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Oh my... oh my...

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Can you feel it?

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When the movie ends...

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can you look only at me,
not at the movie screen?

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[Wow, this is no joke.]

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Today's theme is a chance to explore
the differences between men and women.

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It's the men vs. women special.

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Spring is an opportunity for men because
women's hearts flutter when spring comes.

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It's an opportunity...

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And wait a minute...

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You are suggesting other men do
what you want to do yourself.

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Ms. Noh Sa Yeon, I heard you cleared
your schedule to see Big Bang today.

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Yes, I cleared my whole schedule today.

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My... Ji Yong.

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[So grateful]

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But I heard your husband Lee Moo
Song is a big fan of Kahi.

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I feel a little annoyed because
my rival is here today too.

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- No, there are many who like her.
- There are.

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Of course.

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You heard that rumor
about Hee Sun, right?

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Unlike the rumors, she's
very easy-going...

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- And she's very honest as well.
- Ah, hold it.

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What do they say about me?

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They say you're so pretty,
and you act accordingly.

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[Thank you]

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[You are welcome]

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[Scary women...]

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I've never done that, but there was a
rumor that I'm pretending to be pretty.

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I mean... how could I be pretending?

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[Madam Kim is with the flow today, too.]

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I am just saying that...

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because you react favorably to it.

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[GD's face is burning from her comments.]

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That made GD's face red.

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Cheers.

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It's been a while, right?

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How did you two become friends?

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- When I was a baby--
- When you were a baby?

158
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He really was.

159
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I bought school uniforms for him as well.

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- Since I was in junior high school--
- Wow.

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That's way before he debuted as Big Bang.

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I know so many back-stories about him,
but he volunteered to come on the show.

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[A huge crisis]

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You're out of your mind.

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But I know so many
back-stories about you too.

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[I won't go down alone.]

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- Wow, that's cool.
- No, it's not fair because...

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I am married now.

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You two should just expose everything about
each other and die honorable deaths.

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I'm faced with a choice between
Hwasin or a friend of over a decade.

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I am choosing Hwasin.

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Today's first problem is...

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how did you make that special
someone your partner?

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Today we are going to guess the highest
voted answer for men and women.

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- It's not a generational thing?
- No.

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In particular, how men and women
do it is totally different.

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Their belief systems as well as how they
process it are completely different.

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I hear you fall in love easily?

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[Surprised!]

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His heart is open wide like
Gwanghwamun Gate.

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He is an open man?

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Is that true? Do you acknowledge that?

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I treat them well if I like them.

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To me it's doesn't mean much...

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I always tie their shoes for them.

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I do it without even thinking about it.

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<i>You tie their shoes for them?</i>

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- Like they do in the movies.
- I do things like that.

189
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I think he is such a nice guy.

190
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To me, it doesn't mean much.

191
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- It comes naturally to you.
- Yes, for my girlfriend.

192
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Sometimes you have to take your
shoes off at certain restaurants.

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On our way out, I bring her her shoes
and tie the shoelaces for her.

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[I see...]

195
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When he notices that his
girlfriend has finished eating

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he goes and brings her
water and napkins.

197
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He treats them so well.

198
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It's a dating style for servers, right?

199
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[Ask for GD at the entrance.]

200
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When they go out to eat, he gets on his
knees and asks, 'What would you like?'

201
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I got new information from someone
who is really close to him.

202
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I heard that GD is a master
of playing hard to get.

203
00:11:29,270 --> 00:11:34,440
I heard he works hard to make himself
look good before he asks her out.

204
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I do something that I
don't even notice myself.

205
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When I am in front of women I like...

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- I behave very nicely.
- He becomes very nice and gentle.

207
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I think I become like that.

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His way of speaking changes as well.

209
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When it's just us, he's like this.

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He crosses his legs and
says, 'How do you do?'

211
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As if he's from Paris.

212
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'Thank you.'

213
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Like this...

214
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- And he doesn't speak much.
- I don't speak much.

215
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Instead he shows his affection
by doing things for them.

216
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- Oh...
- That's charming.

217
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He is romantic that way.

218
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- How is your girlfriend...
- I heard she's in a TV drama.

219
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She's never been in a TV drama.

220
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[GD dodges it in one move.]

221
00:12:27,710 --> 00:12:31,650
No, she isn't an actress.

222
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[Hee Sun, please!]

223
00:12:34,870 --> 00:12:38,900
Hee Sun knows all about it and she
says his girlfriend isn't an actress.

224
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I am sure you have your
power move.

225
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Based on my experience...

226
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- I haven't had too many experiences--
- Yes, you have.

227
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I think ladies like to
have a sense of certainty.

228
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I think women are sensitive whether
you're just their friend or not.

229
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Before both of us agreed to go out and
when we felt some attraction between us

230
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I would have her come to a party.

231
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And when they ask me who she is

232
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I tell my friends she's my girlfriend.

233
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You make an announcement to your
friends when she doesn't expect it.

234
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When the status of the relationship
hasn't been clearly defined.

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For example, I'm hanging out with her and
my friend asks me, 'Who's there with you?'

236
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'I'm with my girlfriend',
without hesitation.

237
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That's the move that will sweep
women off their feet in one shot.

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- That's right.
- Ah, really?

239
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What if she responds by
saying, 'What the hell?'

240
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- But you can sense how she feels, right?
- That's true.

241
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[Ah... there's that, too?]

242
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In most cases, women are waiting
for men to make the move, right?

243
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When the relationship status is up in
the air and he says that, we are like

244
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'Oh, my!' and we feel
so touched by that.

245
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On the other hand...

246
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when the relationship status is up in the
air and his friends ask him, 'Your girlfriend?'

247
00:13:56,510 --> 00:13:58,510
'No, she isn't. She's just a friend.'

248
00:13:58,510 --> 00:14:01,020
You shouldn't just let that go.

249
00:14:01,020 --> 00:14:02,360
That's the end of it.

250
00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:05,760
That's when we become just friends.

251
00:14:06,760 --> 00:14:10,240
- But you can't be sure about it, right?
- That's true. It's a risk as well.

252
00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,470
- You were taking a risk, right?
- Right.

253
00:14:12,470 --> 00:14:19,990
But I also think saying something like that
is a chance to see how she feels about you.

254
00:14:20,750 --> 00:14:23,850
In most cases, the
results were favorable.

255
00:14:23,850 --> 00:14:28,580
I'm curious, how was it
after you said that?

256
00:14:28,580 --> 00:14:30,550
When you go home, after
you've said that.

257
00:14:30,550 --> 00:14:32,550
Why do you seem so interested?

258
00:14:32,550 --> 00:14:34,460
They become very close after that.

259
00:14:35,130 --> 00:14:36,150
It's so much fun.

260
00:14:36,150 --> 00:14:39,960
Before that, we didn't have a clear way
of thinking about our relationship.

261
00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:43,020
- But after I said that--
- Did you walk arm in arm with her?

262
00:14:43,020 --> 00:14:45,070
[Moving to the next level!]

263
00:14:45,070 --> 00:14:49,470
Something simple like
taking her by her hand.

264
00:14:50,190 --> 00:14:52,320
Since it's official now, you do things
that lovers are supposed to do.

265
00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,230
Yes, I do the... things
that lovers... do...

266
00:14:55,230 --> 00:14:57,760
- Things that lovers do.
- Things that lovers do.

267
00:14:57,760 --> 00:14:59,260
I am curious about this.

268
00:14:59,260 --> 00:15:02,520
But if she has an indifferent reaction,
it might be embarrassing.

269
00:15:02,520 --> 00:15:04,580
Yes, it would be embarrassing, but

270
00:15:04,580 --> 00:15:07,010
I've never gotten that reaction.

271
00:15:07,010 --> 00:15:09,580
For example, 'What the hell?'

272
00:15:09,580 --> 00:15:13,860
- What if she responds that way?
- It could be an overused technique.

273
00:15:13,860 --> 00:15:19,140
'I was just playing,' I'd tell her.

274
00:15:20,140 --> 00:15:21,940
[Ji Yong, he is not playing.]

275
00:15:21,940 --> 00:15:25,750
I have to do something to clear
the air when things get awkward.

276
00:15:25,750 --> 00:15:28,550
Wow, he is an expert.

277
00:15:28,550 --> 00:15:31,130
You've got to know how to
handle every situation.

278
00:15:31,130 --> 00:15:33,450
Shall we check and see
if that's the answer?

279
00:15:33,450 --> 00:15:35,600
'Making an announcement about
it in front of others.'

280
00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:37,990
Let's check the answer!

281
00:15:37,990 --> 00:15:39,900
[Out of ranking]

282
00:15:39,900 --> 00:15:41,450
Nobody even suggested that answer.

283
00:15:41,450 --> 00:15:44,300
It's a very unique way.

284
00:15:44,300 --> 00:15:45,970
It's a very good technique.

285
00:15:45,970 --> 00:15:48,060
This is G-Dragon's way.

286
00:15:48,060 --> 00:15:51,010
'Gi Bang.'

287
00:15:51,010 --> 00:15:53,190
[Haha]

288
00:15:53,850 --> 00:15:57,290
I think men definitely use this method.

289
00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:06,390
Don't you feel a little jealous when
every girl only shows interest in GD?

290
00:16:06,390 --> 00:16:09,600
- Be honest.
- You know... I do.

291
00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:11,590
[Giggle]

292
00:16:11,590 --> 00:16:14,670
- You're being honest.
- I do, since I'm a human too.

293
00:16:14,670 --> 00:16:16,420
You give up if she's way more
popular than you are, right?

294
00:16:16,420 --> 00:16:20,920
- Yes, I do.
- He's so cool that he admits it.

295
00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:24,210
When she's focused on GD, right?

296
00:16:24,210 --> 00:16:27,090
Let's say Hee Sun is interested in him.

297
00:16:27,090 --> 00:16:30,610
Then, I would walk by
her a couple of times.

298
00:16:30,620 --> 00:16:32,510
And if she doesn't even look at me

299
00:16:32,510 --> 00:16:34,860
then I give up for sure.

300
00:16:34,860 --> 00:16:39,300
But Dae Sung...
doesn't give up.

301
00:16:39,300 --> 00:16:40,250
[Hold it]

302
00:16:40,250 --> 00:16:43,120
I do. I give up.

303
00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,450
Kyung Ho, say something.

304
00:16:45,450 --> 00:16:47,830
[Holding silence as GD and Dae
Sung are doing quite well]

305
00:16:48,460 --> 00:16:51,400
- You do have a girlfriend, don't you?
- I do.

306
00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:53,250
- You do.
- Yes.

307
00:16:53,250 --> 00:16:57,200
- Could you tell us...
- There's a bit of an age difference.

308
00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:58,480
How many years?

309
00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:01,570
- Must be more than 10 years.
- My age is...

310
00:17:02,130 --> 00:17:04,490
- There is a 13-year difference.
- See?

311
00:17:04,490 --> 00:17:05,560
Younger?

312
00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:09,010
- Are you thinking about marriage?
- Why the sudden...

313
00:17:09,010 --> 00:17:12,850
- It's the first time we've heard about it.
- Because we're curious about it.

314
00:17:12,850 --> 00:17:15,550
- We wanted to congratulate you.
- Yes.

315
00:17:15,550 --> 00:17:18,510
- Thinking about marriage?
- Yes, of course, I'm thinking about it.

316
00:17:18,510 --> 00:17:21,710
This is the first time you're
announcing it on TV, right?

317
00:17:21,710 --> 00:17:24,600
It's the first time I've shared it on TV.

318
00:17:25,160 --> 00:17:29,640
She's living and working in Korea, but

319
00:17:29,640 --> 00:17:32,060
since she's a foreigner...

320
00:17:32,060 --> 00:17:35,170
- She's Japanese.
- Ah...

321
00:17:35,170 --> 00:17:37,830
- It was intentional.
- But still...

322
00:17:37,830 --> 00:17:41,520
That means you met her
after a concert, right?

323
00:17:41,520 --> 00:17:44,900
She had no idea I was a singer.

324
00:17:44,900 --> 00:17:46,810
How did you meet her?

325
00:17:46,810 --> 00:17:49,270
The director of a hospital
introduced me to her.

326
00:17:49,270 --> 00:17:53,850
[Ah... a blind date...]

327
00:17:53,850 --> 00:17:56,110
That's unusual.

328
00:17:56,110 --> 00:17:58,630
I've never shared this much detail before.

329
00:17:58,630 --> 00:18:01,120
- Did you go to that hospital often?
- Yes.

330
00:18:01,120 --> 00:18:03,130
- A dermatologist's clinic?
- Yes.

331
00:18:04,240 --> 00:18:06,060
You go to Japan to see a dermatologist?

332
00:18:06,060 --> 00:18:08,500
- No, it's not that.
- Oh, no?

333
00:18:08,500 --> 00:18:12,150
These days, many doctors
come over from Japan.

334
00:18:12,150 --> 00:18:13,560
That's true.

335
00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,110
Because we have far better
medical technology.

336
00:18:16,110 --> 00:18:20,240
She was a translator for them.

337
00:18:20,240 --> 00:18:22,110
How do you communicate?

338
00:18:22,110 --> 00:18:24,600
She's amazing at speaking Korean.

339
00:18:25,210 --> 00:18:28,730
Because of that, my Japanese
isn't getting any better.

340
00:18:28,730 --> 00:18:31,220
- She was born and raised in Japan, right?
- Yes.

341
00:18:31,220 --> 00:18:35,450
She's Japanese but she learned
Korean because she loves him.

342
00:18:35,450 --> 00:18:36,700
That's so cool.

343
00:18:36,700 --> 00:18:40,040
How did you two officially
become a couple?

344
00:18:40,040 --> 00:18:41,940
It took us so long.

345
00:18:41,940 --> 00:18:45,590
I hate it when someone finds out
how I feel about them.

346
00:18:45,590 --> 00:18:48,370
I don't usually approach someone myself.

347
00:18:48,370 --> 00:18:51,390
I didn't even know how she felt about me.

348
00:18:51,390 --> 00:18:56,980
It took a lot of courage for me to ask the
director to set up a blind date with her.

349
00:18:57,790 --> 00:19:00,880
After that, it took another six months.

350
00:19:00,880 --> 00:19:07,340
I never even touched her, and we always
went to restaurants and movie theaters.

351
00:19:07,340 --> 00:19:08,610
That's all we did.

352
00:19:08,610 --> 00:19:13,060
Even if you didn't hold her hand, I am sure
there was a tiny bit of physical contact.

353
00:19:13,060 --> 00:19:16,680
So, because she was a foreigner

354
00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:21,640
I needed to be more cautious. Especially
because I didn't want to hurt her.

355
00:19:22,510 --> 00:19:28,080
You know, it could be a very
meaningful visual resource later on...

356
00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,590
How about sending her a
video message?

357
00:19:30,590 --> 00:19:32,900
We shouldn't mention her name, right?

358
00:19:32,900 --> 00:19:35,510
Isn't her name Michiko?

359
00:19:35,510 --> 00:19:37,250
[The name everyone knows, Michiko.]

360
00:19:37,250 --> 00:19:39,450
A popular name in the movies.

361
00:19:39,450 --> 00:19:42,770
There are names like Michiko
and Ayako everywhere.

362
00:19:42,770 --> 00:19:44,850
[We somehow decided her name is Michiko.]

363
00:19:44,850 --> 00:19:48,010
Come to think of it, I've never
formally asked you to be my girlfriend.

364
00:19:48,010 --> 00:19:50,170
Wow, that's cool.

365
00:19:50,170 --> 00:19:51,500
Confess your love.

366
00:19:51,500 --> 00:20:00,430
First, thank you for trusting me and loving
me even though I live in a foreign country.

367
00:20:00,430 --> 00:20:05,770
I promise to always be by your side
you so you won't be lonely.

368
00:20:05,770 --> 00:20:09,370
And... I would like us
to love each other forever.

369
00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:14,930
Wow, that was a confession
of love via video message.

370
00:20:15,460 --> 00:20:18,890
Today's theme is about your
power move that makes her yours.

371
00:20:18,890 --> 00:20:22,910
In my case, my first time was...

372
00:20:22,910 --> 00:20:24,830
- Your first time?
- No, no.

373
00:20:24,830 --> 00:20:29,890
It would be good for your rating, but you
don't have to talk about your first time.

374
00:20:29,890 --> 00:20:32,420
You went and started to
talk about your first time.

375
00:20:32,420 --> 00:20:34,420
Let's not take that route.

376
00:20:34,420 --> 00:20:37,670
We would be grateful if you
told us about it, but...

377
00:20:40,470 --> 00:20:44,700
I think I've gone out with about
eight different ladies.

378
00:20:44,700 --> 00:20:46,660
You don't even date that much?

379
00:20:46,660 --> 00:20:49,750
- Didn't he mean that it's not enough?
- Is it?

380
00:20:49,750 --> 00:20:51,160
His face says otherwise.

381
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:56,310
Once I fall in love with someone, I focus
only on that person. That's how I am.

382
00:20:56,310 --> 00:21:01,570
You are talking about your ex-girlfriends
when your wedding date is set, right?

383
00:21:01,570 --> 00:21:03,960
[Hee Sun throws a blunt one
at him all of a sudden]

384
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:08,640
No, to guess the right answer, he needs
to talk about his past too, of course.

385
00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:12,550
He just gave her a video message
less than a minute ago...

386
00:21:13,300 --> 00:21:15,470
It's been such a long time.

387
00:21:15,470 --> 00:21:18,630
I think I often fell in love,
but it ended painfully.

388
00:21:18,630 --> 00:21:22,670
The one that I liked
always had a boyfriend.

389
00:21:24,550 --> 00:21:29,350
But I didn't want to lose her, so
I kept spending time around her.

390
00:21:29,350 --> 00:21:31,820
One day, my friend found out about it.

391
00:21:31,820 --> 00:21:34,300
I had feelings for his girlfriend.

392
00:21:34,300 --> 00:21:36,620
My friend said to me

393
00:21:36,620 --> 00:21:39,910
'I think you have feelings
for my girlfriend.'

394
00:21:39,910 --> 00:21:41,620
He told you that himself.

395
00:21:41,620 --> 00:21:45,990
'I think that's why you always come to
my parties,' as if he was testing me.

396
00:21:46,910 --> 00:21:49,730
Once he found out about it, I
had no idea how to handle it.

397
00:21:49,730 --> 00:21:51,510
Feeling as if you're totally naked.

398
00:21:51,510 --> 00:21:54,960
- A little after that, they broke up.
- Oh, they did?

399
00:21:54,960 --> 00:21:57,440
I wasn't even hoping for that.

400
00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:02,620
Later I found out that he broke her heart.

401
00:22:03,910 --> 00:22:07,180
He cheated on her.

402
00:22:07,180 --> 00:22:10,050
It was a party like this one, right?

403
00:22:10,050 --> 00:22:12,840
An occasion where we got together
to drink with our friends.

404
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,950
And we switched seats
once in a while, right?

405
00:22:15,950 --> 00:22:18,200
I used that as the opportunity.

406
00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:20,980
That's when I sat beside
her and listen to her.

407
00:22:20,980 --> 00:22:23,340
Listening to her.

408
00:22:23,340 --> 00:22:26,890
She was crying while talking about it.

409
00:22:26,890 --> 00:22:31,810
I supported her by listening
quietly to her dissing him.

410
00:22:31,810 --> 00:22:35,930
- So I--
- 'What a jerk...'

411
00:22:35,930 --> 00:22:37,620
[Indifferent]

412
00:22:37,620 --> 00:22:41,080
Come on, she was reenacting
the situation for you.

413
00:22:41,690 --> 00:22:44,050
He declined to play along.

414
00:22:44,050 --> 00:22:46,350
I guess he didn't feel it.

415
00:22:46,350 --> 00:22:47,830
Your second step?

416
00:22:47,830 --> 00:22:51,490
She must not have known I liked her.
She needed time to collect her thoughts.

417
00:22:51,490 --> 00:22:55,530
Before the second step, all
I did was be supportive.

418
00:22:56,810 --> 00:23:00,540
I think Kyung Ho and GD have two
totally different approaches.

419
00:23:00,540 --> 00:23:03,330
To me...

420
00:23:03,330 --> 00:23:07,410
it's far better to handle
it the way he did.

421
00:23:07,410 --> 00:23:12,810
I also used to be like Kyung Ho,
and I got hurt big time.

422
00:23:12,810 --> 00:23:16,090
After that experience, I
couldn't continue doing that.

423
00:23:16,780 --> 00:23:19,690
I started to be more direct about it.

424
00:23:19,690 --> 00:23:21,690
You got hurt using his method?

425
00:23:21,690 --> 00:23:23,590
- So you got hurt--
- Yes.

426
00:23:23,590 --> 00:23:26,370
I also once had secret crush
on someone for two years.

427
00:23:26,370 --> 00:23:28,630
Oh... really?

428
00:23:28,630 --> 00:23:32,830
I even confessed my love for her twice,
but she rejected me both times.

429
00:23:32,830 --> 00:23:37,320
By the third time,
she already had a boyfriend.

430
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:44,770
The last time, I bought flowers and waited
for her in front of her house in the rain.

431
00:23:44,770 --> 00:23:45,780
Oh, my!

432
00:23:45,780 --> 00:23:51,350
On a rainy day, I called her and told her
I was waiting for her outside the door.

433
00:23:51,350 --> 00:23:54,080
I waited for five hours.

434
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:57,010
I was waiting in front of the wrong house.

435
00:23:57,010 --> 00:23:59,140
Oh my, oh my.

436
00:23:59,140 --> 00:24:03,460
- She gave me a fake address.
- She gave him a fake address.

437
00:24:03,460 --> 00:24:07,840
- She didn't want me know where she lived.
- Oh...

438
00:24:07,840 --> 00:24:10,370
Must have been disappointing...

439
00:24:10,370 --> 00:24:12,480
Wait a minute. So how did it end?

440
00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:15,880
I used a kind of cowardly way in the end.

441
00:24:15,880 --> 00:24:22,890
I just couldn't feel certain about making
the move. I wanted to test her, so I...

442
00:24:23,780 --> 00:24:25,820
'Do you want to go on a
blind date?' I asked her.

443
00:24:25,820 --> 00:24:28,110
[Ah]

444
00:24:28,110 --> 00:24:31,790
- Was it too cowardly?
- It is a passive approach but

445
00:24:31,790 --> 00:24:33,690
a lot of men can relate to it.

446
00:24:33,690 --> 00:24:38,460
- It's a way to make sure--
- Looks like Dae Sung can relate to it.

447
00:24:38,460 --> 00:24:41,560
[Men feel total empathy for it]

448
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:46,300
And I look at how she reacts
when I ask her that question

449
00:24:46,300 --> 00:24:50,610
to see whether she seems to
have feelings for me or not.

450
00:24:50,610 --> 00:24:53,160
You can tell, right?

451
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:56,010
That's when I confess my love for her.

452
00:24:56,010 --> 00:24:59,430
- 'Do you need to go that far?'
- [Wow]

453
00:24:59,430 --> 00:25:03,510
After putting her through
every test there is.

454
00:25:03,510 --> 00:25:08,250
It's because he's afraid of
the pain of rejection.

455
00:25:09,390 --> 00:25:13,000
He is 'Gan Kyung Ho.'

456
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,010
[A master in testing women,
rocker Mr. Gan Kyung Ho]

457
00:25:15,010 --> 00:25:19,090
- You're good at naming people.
- 'Gan Kyung Ho.'

458
00:25:19,090 --> 00:25:20,860
He keeps on testing women.

459
00:25:20,860 --> 00:25:25,360
You do it that way when you get
heartbroken several times. As GD said

460
00:25:25,360 --> 00:25:29,210
I think one of the things
women shouldn't do to men is

461
00:25:29,210 --> 00:25:32,850
- keep our hopes alive.
- I don't know why women do that.

462
00:25:32,850 --> 00:25:36,790
For example, let's say I
am talking with Dae Sung.

463
00:25:36,790 --> 00:25:39,640
She talks about what she
doesn't want in men.

464
00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:43,880
'I don't like men like him. I
want to marry someone like you.'

465
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,110
She tells me that every time...

466
00:25:46,110 --> 00:25:49,830
and she asks for my phone number
and sends me text messages.

467
00:25:49,830 --> 00:25:52,500
But two days later, I go out to meet her

468
00:25:52,500 --> 00:25:54,530
but there is that guy
sitting beside her.

469
00:25:54,530 --> 00:25:56,200
[She wanted him all along!]

470
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:57,940
I heard something like this.

471
00:25:57,940 --> 00:26:03,210
When the woman you are going out
with tells you, 'No, don't call me!'

472
00:26:03,210 --> 00:26:06,580
I heard it means it's okay if you
wait for me in front of my house.

473
00:26:07,610 --> 00:26:10,870
- That's what I heard.
- Right, right.

474
00:26:10,870 --> 00:26:13,630
Men think, 'Okay, I shouldn't call her.'

475
00:26:13,630 --> 00:26:16,980
It means that it's okay to come
over and apologize to me.

476
00:26:16,980 --> 00:26:19,830
That's right. He knows
a lot about women.

477
00:26:19,830 --> 00:26:23,820
As a woman, I hate men who
test women like that.

478
00:26:23,820 --> 00:26:25,210
Me too.

479
00:26:25,210 --> 00:26:27,110
But women don't know when men do that.

480
00:26:27,110 --> 00:26:29,730
Don't women test men just as much?

481
00:26:29,730 --> 00:26:31,150
They know now because
we're talking about it.

482
00:26:31,150 --> 00:26:35,490
It's all right when women test men.

483
00:26:35,490 --> 00:26:37,210
Why?

484
00:26:37,210 --> 00:26:41,230
Rather than testing men, as you said
before, it's about misunderstandings.

485
00:26:41,230 --> 00:26:45,440
For example, people play
drinking games at parties, right?

486
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:47,260
- As an example.
- Yes, yes.

487
00:26:47,260 --> 00:26:50,650
[Such effortless wing motions by GD]

488
00:26:50,650 --> 00:26:55,160
When I play that game, let's
say I didn't lose even once.

489
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,250
But I wanted to drink so bad.

490
00:26:57,250 --> 00:26:59,600
I couldn't drink.
But I didn't lose on purpose.

491
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:03,050
When a lady lost the game, I
volunteered to drink it for her.

492
00:27:03,050 --> 00:27:04,750
Of course, she would misunderstand it.

493
00:27:06,620 --> 00:27:10,620
- I just wanted to drink.
- No, it was your fault.

494
00:27:10,620 --> 00:27:12,590
No, you shouldn't do that.

495
00:27:12,590 --> 00:27:13,600
Was I the one?

496
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,680
You should've done that to
someone you liked, then.

497
00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:17,690
Of course she would start wondering.

498
00:27:17,690 --> 00:27:21,040
- What do you think about this, Mr. Gan Kyung Ho?
- Gan Kyung Ho.

499
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,860
About the psychology of men...

500
00:27:22,860 --> 00:27:26,750
I think he did it so his prospects would
keep their interest in him.

501
00:27:27,370 --> 00:27:28,300
[A clear conclusion]

502
00:27:28,300 --> 00:27:32,640
'I listen to her concerns and problems'

503
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:37,320
'and at the decisive moment, I test
to see how she feels about me.'

504
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:40,080
Okay, let's check the answer!

505
00:27:42,270 --> 00:27:46,190
[Shoot, shoot, shoot]

506
00:27:46,190 --> 00:27:47,730
[Out of ranking]

507
00:27:47,730 --> 00:27:52,040
I thought Beyonce had arrived.

508
00:27:53,710 --> 00:27:56,110
Dae Sung, why don't you give it a try?

509
00:27:56,110 --> 00:27:58,620
- I... I think--
- What is your power move?

510
00:27:58,620 --> 00:28:02,870
I am not good enough at talking
to have a power move.

511
00:28:02,870 --> 00:28:05,080
Not true, you are good at it.

512
00:28:05,080 --> 00:28:08,410
- Actually, I am pretty shy.
- Really?

513
00:28:08,410 --> 00:28:11,060
Aren't you a very
cautious type, Dae Sung?

514
00:28:11,060 --> 00:28:13,400
I am a very cautious person.

515
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,490
When I observe how Dae Sung is...

516
00:28:15,490 --> 00:28:20,910
He... annoys the girl he likes as if
he's a teenager going through puberty.

517
00:28:20,910 --> 00:28:23,630
He plays mean tricks on them.

518
00:28:23,630 --> 00:28:26,190
- Oh, when he was young.
- He tells her that she's ugly.

519
00:28:26,190 --> 00:28:28,400
He teases them on purpose.

520
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:31,720
Hee Sun, what's that on your clothes?

521
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,740
'I accept your humility!'
I do this.

522
00:28:34,740 --> 00:28:37,520
[This is how Dae Sung expresses his love]

523
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,510
Oh, this is how you do it.

524
00:28:40,510 --> 00:28:41,950
[Something like this]

525
00:28:41,950 --> 00:28:43,100
Yes, yes.

526
00:28:43,100 --> 00:28:46,220
Wow, aren't you so happy?

527
00:28:46,820 --> 00:28:52,270
I also received new information about Dae
Sung from someone who's closest to him.

528
00:28:52,270 --> 00:28:54,490
Who's that person?

529
00:28:54,490 --> 00:28:57,370
Is it Yang Hyun Suk?

530
00:28:57,370 --> 00:29:00,360
No, no, no, not him.

531
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,600
[I am watching you]

532
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:07,480
I heard Dae Sung just disappears
when he falls in love.

533
00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:11,440
I heard he disappears from sight
when he's dating someone.

534
00:29:12,740 --> 00:29:15,620
- Is that true?
- [Yes I do]

535
00:29:15,620 --> 00:29:18,660
Since you can't be seen, that
means you aren't dating anymore.

536
00:29:20,410 --> 00:29:26,770
Yes, when I have a girlfriend,
I almost lose a sense of time.

537
00:29:26,770 --> 00:29:28,760
I once went through this...

538
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:36,460
I once had a crush on someone that I
had no chance of going out with.

539
00:29:36,460 --> 00:29:38,430
I knew her phone number but

540
00:29:38,430 --> 00:29:40,540
I had no reason to call her.

541
00:29:40,540 --> 00:29:42,850
And it remained that way.

542
00:29:42,850 --> 00:29:45,050
But I still had feelings for her.

543
00:29:45,050 --> 00:29:51,000
I thought a lot about how I could open
a channel of communication with her.

544
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:56,600
One of the things that I came up with was
pretending that I called her by accident.

545
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:01,860
- Ah!
- Oh, that's cute.

546
00:30:01,860 --> 00:30:05,230
- That's cute.
- So timid, so timid.

547
00:30:05,230 --> 00:30:08,560
- Sending her a text 'by accident.'
- I pretended to call her by accident.

548
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:11,310
I thought just sending her a
text was too timid, even for me.

549
00:30:11,310 --> 00:30:13,690
I decided to call her instead.

550
00:30:13,690 --> 00:30:14,980
Then what?

551
00:30:14,980 --> 00:30:19,140
And I had to write down a script
for it because I was so nervous.

552
00:30:20,260 --> 00:30:23,220
I prepared a script for it.
For example

553
00:30:23,220 --> 00:30:24,380
He's very detailed.

554
00:30:24,380 --> 00:30:26,290
I set up a scenario where
I called my stylist.

555
00:30:26,290 --> 00:30:30,690
'What will I wear tomorrow? This is my
schedule. I'll be there at this hour.'

556
00:30:30,690 --> 00:30:34,420
I couldn't talk too much, so
I would just talk up to that point.

557
00:30:34,420 --> 00:30:41,260
The important thing is that... you have
to start talking before she says 'Hello?'

558
00:30:41,260 --> 00:30:43,310
- You recognize the voice, right?
- Without reason or rhythm?

559
00:30:43,310 --> 00:30:45,710
When you look at the screen of your phone

560
00:30:45,710 --> 00:30:49,710
It says '00:00' when
they answer the phone.

561
00:30:49,710 --> 00:30:51,230
Right, right.

562
00:30:51,230 --> 00:30:55,130
You don't listen to it.
You look at your phone.

563
00:30:55,130 --> 00:30:58,840
You have to look at it to see
when it says '00:00.'

564
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:03,350
'So I wanted to make sure. I am doing this
and that and that tomorrow,' I told her.

565
00:31:03,350 --> 00:31:05,480
There was silence for a moment.

566
00:31:05,480 --> 00:31:08,690
And then she was laughing out loud.
So I go

567
00:31:08,690 --> 00:31:12,160
'Ah! Ah, I'm sorry!'

568
00:31:12,160 --> 00:31:14,690
And then I hang up. And
the reason for it is

569
00:31:14,690 --> 00:31:19,510
because if you talk any longer, she
doesn't have a reason to call you back.

570
00:31:19,510 --> 00:31:21,480
You pretend that you
are thrown off guard.

571
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:24,990
I need to hang up so she
thinks I did call my stylist.

572
00:31:24,990 --> 00:31:29,180
After that I contact her again.
This time via text message.

573
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:34,270
- That makes you look innocent.
- Does it?

574
00:31:34,270 --> 00:31:37,650
- 'I'm sorry.'
- Make them think you're nervous.

575
00:31:37,650 --> 00:31:38,940
You shouldn't text her right away.

576
00:31:38,940 --> 00:31:41,840
- Wait 10 minutes.
- Make it look like you hesitated.

577
00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:45,860
- So smart.
- 'I'm sorry about that.'

578
00:31:51,270 --> 00:31:53,100
[Mr. Gan Kyung Ho learned a
technique from an 18-year-old]

579
00:31:53,100 --> 00:31:56,360
So since it started off
as a cute mistake --

580
00:31:56,360 --> 00:31:58,380
You send her cute emoticons?

581
00:31:58,380 --> 00:32:00,190
'It's okay,' she replies.

582
00:32:00,190 --> 00:32:03,050
- That's how --
- You open up a conversation with her.

583
00:32:03,050 --> 00:32:05,160
'I guess you're doing something
tomorrow?' she replies.

584
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,880
If she weren't interested, she'd
write, 'Be careful in the future.'

585
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:12,290
'Wake up and pay attention!'

586
00:32:13,050 --> 00:32:15,020
Have you ever done something like that?

587
00:32:15,020 --> 00:32:18,680
I've called wrong numbers but I don't use
that technique to start conversations.

588
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:22,030
You know, he doesn't need
to because he's not timid.

589
00:32:22,030 --> 00:32:24,350
He just has to say, 'She's my girlfriend.'

590
00:32:24,350 --> 00:32:28,110
If I do that, I get this from them.

591
00:32:28,110 --> 00:32:31,230
I found my own way around it, you know.

592
00:32:33,450 --> 00:32:37,310
Within the same band, there are
many approaches.

593
00:32:37,310 --> 00:32:38,390
Right, right.

594
00:32:38,390 --> 00:32:40,400
Based on your perspective, Gan Kyung Ho

595
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:46,190
I think you might have... used
that technique to talk to her...

596
00:32:46,190 --> 00:32:49,110
I think I might have gone
through something similar.

597
00:32:49,110 --> 00:32:50,580
How did it go?

598
00:32:50,580 --> 00:32:53,060
[Hesitant]

599
00:32:53,060 --> 00:32:57,440
- Should I talk about...
- Sure, talk about it all today.

600
00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,340
Since this happened before
I started dating her.

601
00:33:00,340 --> 00:33:01,960
[It's all just in the past]

602
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:04,750
We will place your video
message at the end.

603
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,360
I think you could put it right after your previews.

604
00:33:09,360 --> 00:33:10,860
Yes.

605
00:33:10,860 --> 00:33:13,270
I once got caught dating two
women at the same time.

606
00:33:15,380 --> 00:33:17,630
[Jackpot]

607
00:33:17,630 --> 00:33:19,550
I think this might be too much...

608
00:33:20,580 --> 00:33:24,590
No, since you let it all go and you're with
your current girlfriend now, it's okay.

609
00:33:25,850 --> 00:33:26,820
Wow, at the same time.

610
00:33:26,820 --> 00:33:28,810
She got you by the neck.

611
00:33:28,810 --> 00:33:29,890
- Right.
- Yes.

612
00:33:29,890 --> 00:33:34,370
I sent a text message to show
that I was interested in her

613
00:33:34,370 --> 00:33:36,960
but I used the wrong name.

614
00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:42,200
- You lost both of them, right?
- I did.

615
00:33:42,200 --> 00:33:45,840
Since you made that mistake back then, how
about sending her a video message of apology?

616
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:49,600
Please, stop that. Seriously.

617
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:52,410
It makes you look magnanimous when
you apologize for things like that.

618
00:33:52,430 --> 00:33:54,990
Say 'I am sorry.'

619
00:33:56,130 --> 00:33:58,660
I am so sorry.

620
00:33:59,600 --> 00:34:02,060
You are not that way anymore.

621
00:34:02,060 --> 00:34:06,380
'The power move I use when that special
someone won't get any closer.'

622
00:34:06,380 --> 00:34:10,230
'Start a conversation by pretending
you called a wrong number.'

623
00:34:10,230 --> 00:34:11,870
Let's check the answer!

624
00:34:14,530 --> 00:34:16,270
[Oh]

625
00:34:17,820 --> 00:34:22,140
I thought I had to use the
answer I talked about.

626
00:34:22,140 --> 00:34:24,060
Let's hear Sa Yeon's story this time.

627
00:34:24,060 --> 00:34:26,220
I think it should be from
your personal experience.

628
00:34:26,220 --> 00:34:29,040
I cut off any communication with him.

629
00:34:30,460 --> 00:34:32,720
That's how I got to marry him.

630
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:37,590
I fell in love at first sight
when I met my husband.

631
00:34:37,590 --> 00:34:39,010
- Yes, you did.
- Yes.

632
00:34:39,010 --> 00:34:44,310
So after a while, I wanted to
know everything about him.

633
00:34:44,310 --> 00:34:48,370
I found out he's from America
and how he studied music.

634
00:34:48,370 --> 00:34:53,820
My radio program directors made him
a regular guest on my show.

635
00:34:53,820 --> 00:34:56,360
- So I got to see him every week.
- Was it after his hit song?

636
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:59,440
- It was before that.
- Oh, so this was before his hit song?

637
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:01,550
I worked on it for two years.

638
00:35:01,550 --> 00:35:04,870
- That's when Sa Yeon was at the top of her game.
- Yes, yes.

639
00:35:04,870 --> 00:35:08,230
- And Lee Moo Song was known.
- He was totally unknown at the time.

640
00:35:08,230 --> 00:35:12,480
Even when I walked around with him,
people didn't know that I liked him.

641
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:16,960
It was when almost nobody knew him.

642
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:22,450
It's embarrassing to say this but he never
even touched me once for two years.

643
00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:26,610
Because of that I cut off
any communication with him.

644
00:35:26,610 --> 00:35:31,490
I did that, but that's when Moo Song
called me and said he wanted to marry me.

645
00:35:33,370 --> 00:35:36,850
- Without saying anything else?
- Yes, yes.

646
00:35:36,850 --> 00:35:41,000
Because I became totally indifferent
to him, he became so scared.

647
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:48,100
He said when I didn't talk to or see him, he
was scared to be alone and so attracted to me.

648
00:35:48,100 --> 00:35:51,990
And he called his mother and
said that he wanted to marry me.

649
00:35:51,990 --> 00:35:53,820
His mother gave him the permission.

650
00:35:53,820 --> 00:35:57,500
After you cut off all communication with
him, how long was it before he called you?

651
00:35:57,500 --> 00:35:59,460
- About 10 days?
- 10 days?

652
00:35:59,460 --> 00:36:02,070
Those 10 days must've been
so difficult for Moo Song.

653
00:36:02,070 --> 00:36:04,780
When I saw Moo Song again,
he had lost so much weight.

654
00:36:07,380 --> 00:36:09,920
- Because he was in distress?
- You know what I told him?

655
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:13,690
When he asked me to marry him, I did
everything a respectable lady should do.

656
00:36:13,690 --> 00:36:18,080
'Give me time to think about it.'

657
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:21,330
[Bravo Noh Sa Yeon!]

658
00:36:21,330 --> 00:36:23,250
- I have a nickname for her.
- What is it?

659
00:36:23,250 --> 00:36:25,090
He's 'Gan Kyung Ho.'

660
00:36:25,090 --> 00:36:27,800
She's 'No Doubt.'

661
00:36:28,690 --> 00:36:34,790
But, I bet... it must've been hard waiting
7 days before giving him your answer.

662
00:36:34,790 --> 00:36:38,000
I thought I was going to die waiting
for the seven days to pass.

663
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:40,110
I really thought I was going to die.

664
00:36:40,110 --> 00:36:42,740
I even hit myself in the mouth.

665
00:36:42,740 --> 00:36:46,320
I was so angry and so upset.
It felt like I was waiting seven years.

666
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:51,160
But Moo Song brought me a wedding ring.

667
00:36:52,540 --> 00:36:55,440
After you received that ring, what happened?

668
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,220
He told me I asked him to give
me a week to think about it.

669
00:36:58,220 --> 00:37:01,890
The wedding ring that Moo
Song bought me was so...

670
00:37:01,890 --> 00:37:10,250
it was the one thing that he had to spend
absolutely everything he could spare on.

671
00:37:10,250 --> 00:37:13,950
It was a thin ring that
had a tiny ruby on it.

672
00:37:13,950 --> 00:37:18,350
When I saw that ring,
I was so, so happy.

673
00:37:18,350 --> 00:37:22,600
The ring looked so pretty on my
hand because it was so thin.

674
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:26,400
After you received that ring,
how did you say yes to him?

675
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:29,570
I received the ring and we...

676
00:37:29,570 --> 00:37:31,700
- Was that the first time you touched?
- Yes, yes.

677
00:37:31,700 --> 00:37:33,220
We kissed.

678
00:37:33,220 --> 00:37:35,100
- Kissed.
- Yes, kissed.

679
00:37:37,180 --> 00:37:39,000
I know how to kiss too.

680
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:46,540
- I learned how.
- She learned how.

681
00:37:46,570 --> 00:37:48,870
I felt, this is how love feels.

682
00:37:48,870 --> 00:37:51,220
I had everything at the time, right?

683
00:37:51,220 --> 00:37:54,080
I didn't need anything else at that time.

684
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:58,830
All I wanted was to be
loved forever by a man.

685
00:37:58,830 --> 00:38:01,180
I am still being loved that way.

686
00:38:04,130 --> 00:38:05,410
My turn.

687
00:38:05,410 --> 00:38:06,710
I wonder how I'll look.

688
00:38:06,710 --> 00:38:08,960
'I cease all communication.'

689
00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:10,630
- Let's check the answer!

690
00:38:11,360 --> 00:38:13,070
She's got it.

691
00:38:13,070 --> 00:38:15,650
[First place among women.]

692
00:38:15,650 --> 00:38:18,860
- She is a woman.
- It took women to answer it.

693
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:28,830
They say it's because it takes this kind
of stimulation to make them take action.

694
00:38:29,730 --> 00:38:33,370
When she ceases all communication
with me, all of a sudden

695
00:38:33,370 --> 00:38:36,620
it makes me insanely curious about it.

696
00:38:36,620 --> 00:38:39,570
And when that happens

697
00:38:39,570 --> 00:38:43,110
for some reason, I can't
think of anything but that.

698
00:38:43,110 --> 00:38:48,960
Even after we got married, when she
doesn't reply to my text message

699
00:38:48,960 --> 00:38:53,620
- it's hard to focus on anything else.
- That's right. Yes, yes.

700
00:38:53,620 --> 00:38:56,540
It's time for men to up your game.

701
00:38:56,540 --> 00:39:01,820
I think the highest voted answer
is the one GD has used the most.

702
00:39:01,820 --> 00:39:04,390
- Is it just saying it bluntly?
- Yes, that's right.

703
00:39:04,390 --> 00:39:09,350
You just... not doing anything
else, you just kiss them.

704
00:39:09,350 --> 00:39:11,440
Or you can embrace them.

705
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:15,330
Do you show a lot of
physical affection?

706
00:39:15,330 --> 00:39:17,030
It's okay to do.

707
00:39:17,030 --> 00:39:18,820
In my case...

708
00:39:18,820 --> 00:39:21,200
I grew up with several older sisters...

709
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:25,860
so I don't feel inhibited about
showing physical affection.

710
00:39:25,860 --> 00:39:29,000
I'm not repulsed by it.
I feel at ease about it.

711
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:30,500
How so?

712
00:39:30,500 --> 00:39:33,710
If something good happens, I hug people.

713
00:39:33,710 --> 00:39:36,160
When you look at hip hop artists,
they act like this, right?

714
00:39:36,160 --> 00:39:39,240
Yes, that's how we greet each other.

715
00:39:39,240 --> 00:39:41,660
How did you say they act?

716
00:39:41,660 --> 00:39:46,720
What's up, bro?

717
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:49,470
- You do act like this, right?
- Yes, that's right.

718
00:39:49,470 --> 00:39:54,220
I think hugging is a very
comfortable thing to do.

719
00:39:54,220 --> 00:39:57,740
People who are like
that do it so comfortably.

720
00:39:57,740 --> 00:39:59,600
Where is the most comfortable
place to touch? The hands?

721
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:01,370
[The most comfortable way to touch?]

722
00:40:01,370 --> 00:40:03,560
[Something like this?]

723
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:07,140
[Stroking hair]

724
00:40:07,140 --> 00:40:08,490
So, stroking hair.

725
00:40:08,490 --> 00:40:13,750
Or it could be kissing her on
the forehead when you say bye.

726
00:40:15,290 --> 00:40:17,350
[GD's urgent tip-off!]

727
00:40:17,350 --> 00:40:22,820
- I heard something about Dae Sung--
- Oh, what are you talking about?

728
00:40:22,820 --> 00:40:25,110
- Tell us.
- It's a false rumor.

729
00:40:25,110 --> 00:40:27,100
I'm not sure if it's true or not.

730
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:29,630
It was before they were going out.

731
00:40:29,630 --> 00:40:35,900
He wasn't sure whether to kiss her
on the cheek or on the lips.

732
00:40:35,900 --> 00:40:42,000
He wanted to send her a message
that showed he cared about her.

733
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:46,350
Just before he sent her off.

734
00:40:47,070 --> 00:40:49,120
[Kissing her forehead]

735
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,650
Without even saying a word...

736
00:40:51,650 --> 00:40:53,950
[And finishing with an impactful move!]

737
00:40:56,000 --> 00:40:59,540
It's not that. You need to
look cool after you say goodbye.

738
00:41:00,770 --> 00:41:03,230
Yes, three fingers.

739
00:41:04,500 --> 00:41:10,430
After making her think that you're
going to kiss her forehead, right?

740
00:41:10,430 --> 00:41:12,580
What if you kiss her lips instead?

741
00:41:12,580 --> 00:41:16,160
- It's too fast, too soon.
- I love when he kisses you on the eye.

742
00:41:16,160 --> 00:41:19,570
- To say 'I love everything about you?'
- I mean, on the eyeball.

743
00:41:19,570 --> 00:41:23,090
On the eyeball?

744
00:41:23,090 --> 00:41:25,420
Doesn't it cause infection?

745
00:41:25,420 --> 00:41:29,080
Doesn't it cause dry eyes?

746
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:31,210
I mean kissing on the eye.

747
00:41:31,210 --> 00:41:32,380
Tell us.

748
00:41:32,380 --> 00:41:35,290
- On the eyeball--
- Kissing on the eyeball?

749
00:41:35,290 --> 00:41:36,830
Kissing on the eyelid?

750
00:41:36,830 --> 00:41:40,500
You kiss on the eyeball.

751
00:41:40,500 --> 00:41:42,380
You make contact with the eyeball?

752
00:41:42,380 --> 00:41:44,270
She needs to keep her eye open?

753
00:41:44,270 --> 00:41:48,520
- On the eye--
- So you kiss on the eyelid?

754
00:41:48,520 --> 00:41:50,930
- No, with eyes open...
- Right on the eyeball.

755
00:41:50,930 --> 00:41:54,720
- Isn't it bad for your health?
- Who kissed you on the eyeball, Hee Sun?

756
00:41:54,720 --> 00:41:59,310
Her eyes are all red.

757
00:41:59,310 --> 00:42:04,140
When something goes into a child's eye,
Mom sometimes licks it out, you know?

758
00:42:04,140 --> 00:42:06,430
- Yes, they do.
- Moms do that.

759
00:42:06,430 --> 00:42:07,830
- Really?
- Yes.

760
00:42:07,830 --> 00:42:11,640
Do you know a physical touch
that you consider to be unique?

761
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:14,820
For me, it's the ear.

762
00:42:14,820 --> 00:42:18,000
On her ear, rather than kissing it

763
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:21,250
I make a sound like this instead.

764
00:42:21,250 --> 00:42:23,830
- Making a sound.
- Since it's close to her ear.

765
00:42:23,830 --> 00:42:25,950
She reacted like this.

766
00:42:26,610 --> 00:42:29,200
I have two of them.

767
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:33,750
This is something I always do when
my girlfriend is sitting beside me.

768
00:42:33,750 --> 00:42:37,370
I work on something
while touching her ear.

769
00:42:37,370 --> 00:42:40,150
Why would you?

770
00:42:40,150 --> 00:42:42,380
I don't know why, but I feel
calm when I touch ears.

771
00:42:42,380 --> 00:42:46,980
Even in my boys-only school days, there
were boys who loved to touch people's ears.

772
00:42:46,980 --> 00:42:51,050
When my girlfriend is next to me,
I always touch her ear.

773
00:42:51,050 --> 00:42:54,570
[Makes me happy just thinking about it.]

774
00:42:57,090 --> 00:42:59,750
Dong Yup, you haven't shared the
physical touch that you favor.

775
00:42:59,750 --> 00:43:02,120
- It's okay to tell us now.
- Yes.

776
00:43:02,120 --> 00:43:05,030
It's okay. Tell us the one
you told me yesterday.

777
00:43:06,020 --> 00:43:07,610
What do you mean?

778
00:43:07,610 --> 00:43:10,250
We weren't even hanging out yesterday.

779
00:43:10,250 --> 00:43:12,850
What I like is...

780
00:43:12,850 --> 00:43:15,320
- This is just...
- His eyes are getting red again.

781
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,710
His eyes are getting red.

782
00:43:17,710 --> 00:43:21,680
- I can't even show it to you here.
- Is he that innocent?

783
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:25,530
I am good at scratching people's backs.

784
00:43:25,530 --> 00:43:30,400
I am so good at it that you would
feel like your body is melting down.

785
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:35,300
This is something I've done
for my friends many times.

786
00:43:35,300 --> 00:43:41,580
When I scratch their backs without
even missing a tiny spot...

787
00:43:41,580 --> 00:43:46,320
It makes you feel amazing. It's
something you cannot do on your own.

788
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,100
You can't scratch it too hard
or too gently.

789
00:43:49,100 --> 00:43:51,430
It has to be just right.

790
00:43:51,430 --> 00:43:56,650
You have to use your...
nails in the right way.

791
00:43:56,650 --> 00:43:59,580
And if you scratch them like that,
it makes them feel amazing.

792
00:43:59,580 --> 00:44:04,070
And I finish it up by
slapping on your back lightly.

793
00:44:04,070 --> 00:44:07,230
It stings a little and it
releases everything from your back.

794
00:44:07,230 --> 00:44:10,830
Do you like it when your significant
other touches your back that way?

795
00:44:10,830 --> 00:44:18,560
Of course. I taught her how to, and asked
her to scratch mine, but it's not as good.

796
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:22,150
When I did this for my friends

797
00:44:22,150 --> 00:44:26,540
they liked it so much they couldn't
even describe it with words.

798
00:44:27,700 --> 00:44:31,280
Why don't you try it on your
honeymoon after you're married?

799
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:35,090
I'll tell you about the best
one after we're done filming.

800
00:44:37,050 --> 00:44:41,500
'When saying goodbye, I show
physical affection.'

801
00:44:41,500 --> 00:44:42,910
'Showing physical affection.'

802
00:44:42,910 --> 00:44:44,790
Let's check the answer!

803
00:44:45,570 --> 00:44:48,590
[First place for men]

804
00:44:51,330 --> 00:44:53,190
[Showing physical affection
out of the blue.]

805
00:44:53,190 --> 00:44:55,560
Doing it out of the blue made first place.

806
00:44:55,560 --> 00:45:00,110
They say to praise women if you want
half of their heart to open up to you.

807
00:45:00,110 --> 00:45:04,470
They say if you want to completely
open it, then hug them.

808
00:45:04,470 --> 00:45:08,620
When you show physical
affection for someone

809
00:45:08,620 --> 00:45:14,450
isn't it your way of showing how
special that person is to you?

810
00:45:14,450 --> 00:45:18,520
But for this to work, the other
person must also want it.

811
00:45:18,520 --> 00:45:19,590
Yes.

812
00:45:19,590 --> 00:45:26,980
It's a good way to get slapped if you
force it or do it just because you want to.

813
00:45:26,980 --> 00:45:31,100
As a man, you should be able to
sense how she feels about it.

814
00:45:31,100 --> 00:45:35,150
Showing physical affection is not a
one-way street, but a two-way street.

815
00:45:35,150 --> 00:45:38,000
I hope to create miracles of love this year.

816
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,130
Yes!

817
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:44,350
How does it look when the
relationship is broken and over?

818
00:45:44,350 --> 00:45:46,960
- Show us the...
- Next problem!

819
00:45:46,960 --> 00:45:50,110
[Recognizing a second problem]

820
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:54,690
[You discover the problem at...]

821
00:45:54,690 --> 00:45:56,500
[A park]

822
00:45:59,310 --> 00:46:03,030
Sweetie, you are going to
end it for sure, right?

823
00:46:03,810 --> 00:46:08,650
Don't worry. I'm sorry that
I've let this drag on.

824
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:11,890
When she comes here, sit there
and pretend you don't know me.

825
00:46:11,910 --> 00:46:13,760
Alright, I trust you, okay?

826
00:46:13,790 --> 00:46:17,280
Hee Sun, you are the
only one I need.

827
00:46:17,310 --> 00:46:19,210
- Okay?
- Yes.

828
00:46:19,920 --> 00:46:23,750
- What's wrong?
- I know... but there are people here.

829
00:46:23,770 --> 00:46:26,560
What do you mean there are
people around, dummy?

830
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:29,080
What's wrong?

831
00:46:29,110 --> 00:46:30,910
<i>Oh, there she is.</i>

832
00:46:30,930 --> 00:46:34,780
Yup, you got here early, Yup?

833
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:39,900
Ah, Sa Yeon...
No, it's nothing...

834
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,970
Sa Yeon, there is something
I need to tell you.

835
00:46:42,970 --> 00:46:44,930
What's that?

836
00:46:44,950 --> 00:46:48,400
- That you love me?
- No...

837
00:46:48,420 --> 00:46:54,270
- We should just get it...
- Get it on? Here?

838
00:46:54,300 --> 00:46:57,480
<i>No, no, that's not it.</i>

839
00:46:57,510 --> 00:47:01,460
Let's just do it.

840
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:04,080
- Let us break...
- I brought a gift for you.

841
00:47:04,100 --> 00:47:06,290
I brought you a gift.

842
00:47:06,310 --> 00:47:11,770
I felt so sad watching
you walk everywhere, Yup.

843
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,070
Drive this instead.

844
00:47:14,100 --> 00:47:16,160
Also, you might get bored, right?

845
00:47:16,190 --> 00:47:18,490
Then, drive this one instead!

846
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:20,810
If you still get bored once again...

847
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,050
then, you drive this one instead!

848
00:47:23,070 --> 00:47:25,680
[His current girlfriend is very wealthy]

849
00:47:26,630 --> 00:47:28,110
Cute.

850
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:30,730
[Hurry and tell her!]

851
00:47:30,750 --> 00:47:33,580
- Don't worry about it.
- No, not, that's not it.

852
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,600
- I don't need things like this.
- No, don't worry about it.

853
00:47:35,630 --> 00:47:37,120
Let us just break...

854
00:47:37,140 --> 00:47:38,880
Let's just break up--

855
00:47:38,910 --> 00:47:42,700
- Mr. Yoon.
- Ma'am.

856
00:47:44,310 --> 00:47:48,770
Honey, I noticed that you seem
to be very low on energy.

857
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:50,630
I brought you lunch.

858
00:47:50,660 --> 00:47:52,480
Eat this and feel better.

859
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,090
Why a lunch box all of a sudden?

860
00:47:54,110 --> 00:47:56,810
Open it. It comes from my heart.

861
00:48:00,210 --> 00:48:02,640
On the first level, there
are 10,000 won bills.

862
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:05,390
[Jackpot]

863
00:48:05,420 --> 00:48:07,780
On the first level, there
are 10,000 won bills.

864
00:48:08,490 --> 00:48:11,460
On the second level,
there are 50,000 bills.

865
00:48:12,660 --> 00:48:16,490
On the third level, there is a
credit card with unlimited credit!

866
00:48:21,550 --> 00:48:23,680
- Sa Yeon...
- Yes?

867
00:48:26,810 --> 00:48:29,680
[The fire of love ignites again.]

868
00:48:35,610 --> 00:48:37,580
Hey, stop it!

869
00:48:37,610 --> 00:48:39,630
Shin Dong Yup, what are you doing?

870
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:44,870
Hee Sun, I'm sorry... I don't
think I can break up with her.

871
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:49,560
Who's that lady?
Who is that?

872
00:48:49,590 --> 00:48:52,340
I don't know.
I don't know.

873
00:48:52,370 --> 00:48:55,030
Today, I am going to
go look at a building.

874
00:48:55,060 --> 00:48:57,650
- Shall we?
- Yes!

875
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:01,920
Unbelievable!

876
00:49:01,950 --> 00:49:04,270
[And he picks up the cash...]

877
00:49:06,100 --> 00:49:10,240
The relationship you have ended
12 times already in your head.

878
00:49:10,270 --> 00:49:15,860
You delayed it because there was something
that stopped you from ending it, right?

879
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:20,030
The reason that stopped you
from ending a relationship.

880
00:49:20,060 --> 00:49:22,640
What was that reason for you?

881
00:49:25,010 --> 00:49:26,970
Yes!

882
00:49:26,980 --> 00:49:29,190
Yes, it's Hwasin, a master
of hearts and minds.

883
00:49:29,220 --> 00:49:34,850
The question is, 'What's holding you
back from ending that relationship?'

884
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:38,020
Please guess answers that were
voted most times by men and women.

885
00:49:38,050 --> 00:49:43,780
They say romance begins as a romantic
comic and ends as a makjang drama.

886
00:49:43,810 --> 00:49:47,350
Something that started so beautifully
could end in such a shameful way.

887
00:49:47,380 --> 00:49:50,690
Let's get to the bottom
of how romance can end.

888
00:49:50,720 --> 00:49:53,680
If you were in the situation that
my character was in...

889
00:49:53,680 --> 00:49:56,650
don't you think you have second thoughts
about ending it?

890
00:49:56,670 --> 00:50:00,330
When I read the script, I wondered why
you wanted to go to Hee Sun instead.

891
00:50:01,340 --> 00:50:03,540
Because new opportunities
open up for you.

892
00:50:07,850 --> 00:50:10,840
Dae Sung, how about Sa Yeon when she
buys you an apartment and cars?

893
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:13,300
Yes, of course,
my love for her would grow.

894
00:50:14,470 --> 00:50:18,660
Because an apartment and cars
are expressions of love.

895
00:50:18,680 --> 00:50:21,140
It's love because they are warm.

896
00:50:21,170 --> 00:50:23,610
You don't even need a furnace.

897
00:50:23,630 --> 00:50:26,980
- The heat of the engine keeps you warm.
- Yes, it's always warm.

898
00:50:28,100 --> 00:50:30,940
What holds you back from
ending that relationship?

899
00:50:30,970 --> 00:50:34,550
Please guess the reason
why it holds them back.

900
00:50:34,580 --> 00:50:38,120
You may not know this, but I have
a timid side to me.

901
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,610
- It's hard for me to say, 'Let's end it.'
- Oh my gosh.

902
00:50:41,630 --> 00:50:44,910
I feel guilty about
saying it because of...

903
00:50:45,580 --> 00:50:49,050
the little things we shared, you know?

904
00:50:49,060 --> 00:50:51,400
Let's say we were watching Tokyo Tower.

905
00:50:51,420 --> 00:50:53,680
I am watching the movie with her.

906
00:50:53,700 --> 00:50:58,440
I tell her that it might be nice to be on
the Tokyo Tower next year on the same day.

907
00:50:58,470 --> 00:51:01,630
Then she would, of course,
agree to it, right?

908
00:51:02,260 --> 00:51:06,620
Feeling guilty... that I won't
be able to keep that promise?

909
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:09,570
- Because it's a promise you made?
- Yes.

910
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,230
I just found an important clue.

911
00:51:12,250 --> 00:51:13,510
<i>I want to be the same guy--</i>

912
00:51:13,540 --> 00:51:15,680
Are you dating someone from Japan?

913
00:51:15,720 --> 00:51:17,440
<i>Are you dating someone from Japan?</i>

914
00:51:17,450 --> 00:51:18,940
Japan? No, I'm not.

915
00:51:18,970 --> 00:51:22,420
I know you perform in Japan, but why
does it have to be Tokyo Tower?

916
00:51:22,450 --> 00:51:23,400
Why not Namsan Tower?

917
00:51:23,430 --> 00:51:27,030
Yes, it could've been Namsan Tower or
63 Building. So, why Tokyo Tower?

918
00:51:27,660 --> 00:51:31,800
There is a movie titled 'Tokyo Tower.'
There is 'Tokyo Tower.'

919
00:51:32,490 --> 00:51:34,330
Michiko.

920
00:51:35,850 --> 00:51:38,300
Are you watching me?

921
00:51:39,530 --> 00:51:41,680
- Yes, because of things like that.
- Things like that.

922
00:51:41,700 --> 00:51:44,350
What kind of promises do
they make these days?

923
00:51:44,380 --> 00:51:50,620
Men often promise that when they make it
big they will do this and buy that for us.

924
00:51:50,630 --> 00:51:52,330
But they change, you know.

925
00:51:52,350 --> 00:51:56,100
You've made a lot of promises
like that, right?

926
00:51:56,130 --> 00:51:58,810
- Yes, I did.
- And you made a lot of romantic promises too?

927
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:03,680
'I'll always be there with you.'
'I'll be your last man.'

928
00:52:03,710 --> 00:52:06,520
I hate that I changed.

929
00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:12,210
From a broader perspective, it's
just part of meeting new people.

930
00:52:12,240 --> 00:52:16,860
And doesn't it change you dramatically
when you meet someone so beautiful?

931
00:52:17,810 --> 00:52:20,220
- We do...
- That's the problem.

932
00:52:20,250 --> 00:52:24,340
I heard this from someone,
that men are most...

933
00:52:25,610 --> 00:52:27,900
- What about?
- What about men?

934
00:52:27,930 --> 00:52:31,810
When they asked men what kind of women
they like the most, they replied...

935
00:52:32,500 --> 00:52:37,540
'New women.'

936
00:52:37,570 --> 00:52:40,530
No, it's not like that.
It's not--

937
00:52:40,550 --> 00:52:45,630
The most beautiful woman to them is the
one they are meeting for the first time.

938
00:52:45,650 --> 00:52:48,210
<i>Yes, it's the woman they are
meeting for the first time.</i>

939
00:52:48,240 --> 00:52:50,100
He admits it.

940
00:52:50,130 --> 00:52:53,210
<i>- Is it?
- Why are you asking me?</i>

941
00:52:53,230 --> 00:52:56,340
But you just exhaled in a way
that you've never done before.

942
00:52:56,370 --> 00:52:59,970
Yes, the woman they meet for the first time.
Kyung Ho's breathing just got faster.

943
00:53:01,900 --> 00:53:04,140
So I asked my husband

944
00:53:04,160 --> 00:53:07,810
'Why do men change after
they get married?' I asked him.

945
00:53:07,830 --> 00:53:12,880
It was hard for him when 'The same woman
waited for him at the same hour in the same house

946
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,410
looking the same way everyday.'

947
00:53:17,350 --> 00:53:22,260
I am just joking. I was just trying to be funny.
Don't make my husband into someone bad.

948
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:24,170
[My husband is the best.]

949
00:53:25,310 --> 00:53:28,880
When do you think men change
after they start dating?

950
00:53:28,900 --> 00:53:32,760
You mean the time it takes for the
magic of love to wear off for me?

951
00:53:32,780 --> 00:53:35,520
I think it lasts about two to three years.

952
00:53:35,540 --> 00:53:36,860
<i>- It lasts long.
- He is a nice guy.</i>

953
00:53:36,890 --> 00:53:38,030
<i>That's very long.</i>

954
00:53:38,060 --> 00:53:40,400
<i>- Oh, he is a good guy.
- He really is.</i>

955
00:53:42,100 --> 00:53:44,730
When you are blinded by love,
what promises do you make to her?

956
00:53:44,750 --> 00:53:46,120
<i>You talked about Tokyo Tower.</i>

957
00:53:46,140 --> 00:53:48,060
Yes, I talked about Tokyo Tower.

958
00:53:48,910 --> 00:53:51,930
When you were walking with
her on Shibuya street.

959
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:56,460
'I'll shout your name on Shibuya
street next year.' like this.

960
00:53:56,490 --> 00:53:58,290
Men promise things like this.

961
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,380
- It's childish but--
- 'I am going to kiss you on this street.'

962
00:54:01,410 --> 00:54:03,160
- Right.
- 'I'll kiss you in public.' like this.

963
00:54:03,190 --> 00:54:06,030
Kissing in public?

964
00:54:08,530 --> 00:54:13,410
- What promises have you made?
- I don't make promises.

965
00:54:14,780 --> 00:54:18,520
<i>- He really is an expert.
- Everything he says sounds cool.</i>

966
00:54:18,550 --> 00:54:20,310
<i>'I don't make promises.'</i>

967
00:54:20,330 --> 00:54:22,410
The way he speaks is deep, you know.

968
00:54:22,430 --> 00:54:24,890
What do you mean when you
said you don't make promises?

969
00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:28,020
<i>- Ah...
- Does it mean you could change?</i>

970
00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:30,580
It's because nobody knows
how things will turn out.

971
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:35,870
That's true... and the reason
why I don't make promises is...

972
00:54:36,820 --> 00:54:41,270
rather than making promises
that I cannot keep...

973
00:54:41,290 --> 00:54:44,190
it might be better to do the
best that I can in every moment.

974
00:54:44,220 --> 00:54:46,230
'Doing the best he can in the moment.'

975
00:54:46,250 --> 00:54:47,860
<i>- He's similar to me.
- In what way?</i>

976
00:54:47,900 --> 00:54:51,890
Because I don't want them to expect things
from me once I start making promises.

977
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:53,470
[What...?]

978
00:54:53,500 --> 00:54:57,540
[DEFCON one alert]

979
00:54:57,570 --> 00:54:59,850
Every time, the kids these days...

980
00:55:00,900 --> 00:55:02,270
[Let's start with an apology.]

981
00:55:02,310 --> 00:55:03,630
<i>I am sorry.</i>

982
00:55:04,070 --> 00:55:05,520
There are too many special days.

983
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:08,780
Once I start to acknowledge those days,
it just doesn't seem to end.

984
00:55:09,290 --> 00:55:13,150
They are like the promises that I cannot
keep, especially when I am busy with work.

985
00:55:13,170 --> 00:55:15,840
That would create bigger
disappointments, wouldn't it?

986
00:55:16,850 --> 00:55:19,900
Then, what's the biggest promise you kept?

987
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:22,560
Let's talk about the
promises you've kept.

988
00:55:22,580 --> 00:55:24,420
The one I kept...

989
00:55:24,450 --> 00:55:27,310
There was one where...

990
00:55:27,340 --> 00:55:31,660
'I'll be with you whenever
you are sick.' I told her.

991
00:55:31,680 --> 00:55:34,230
- There was this one time.
- Did she get sick?

992
00:55:34,250 --> 00:55:36,110
<i>- Did you skip a TV appearance?
- No, it's not that.</i>

993
00:55:36,140 --> 00:55:38,950
It was the day we had to
go to Japan but

994
00:55:38,970 --> 00:55:41,050
my girlfriend got so sick that day.

995
00:55:41,070 --> 00:55:43,480
But we had a schedule set up
for the day after.

996
00:55:43,510 --> 00:55:46,340
It was alright to catch an early
morning flight on the next day.

997
00:55:46,360 --> 00:55:50,610
So I pretended that I lost my passport.

998
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:52,110
<i>- Seriously?
- Seriously?</i>

999
00:55:52,130 --> 00:55:53,620
<i>- Did you find that out just now?
- Yes.</i>

1000
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:57,920
I pretended that I lost my passport and
spent that day beside my girlfriend.

1001
00:55:57,950 --> 00:55:59,160
[Ah... that's what happened...]

1002
00:55:59,170 --> 00:56:02,690
<i>- Ah, that's so cool.
- GD seems quite irritated.</i>

1003
00:56:02,720 --> 00:56:04,980
At the same time, it didn't
change our work schedule.

1004
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,950
[I think it negatively
influenced Ji Yong?!]

1005
00:56:06,980 --> 00:56:12,020
You were pushing it, but you kept both
personal and professional agreements.

1006
00:56:12,050 --> 00:56:14,280
I caught two rabbits at once.

1007
00:56:15,750 --> 00:56:18,680
He didn't mean anything
bad by it, you know?

1008
00:56:18,700 --> 00:56:19,940
Right...

1009
00:56:19,970 --> 00:56:21,900
- How do you feel...
- It's alright.

1010
00:56:21,930 --> 00:56:24,270
I think I'll lose mine soon as well.

1011
00:56:26,470 --> 00:56:27,970
[That's cool. The leader of Big Bang.]

1012
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:31,600
'Because I didn't keep the
promise that I made from my heart.'

1013
00:56:31,920 --> 00:56:33,250
<i>Let's check the answer!</i>

1014
00:56:36,010 --> 00:56:37,410
[Out of ranking]

1015
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:39,200
<i>It was out of ranking.</i>

1016
00:56:39,220 --> 00:56:42,490
I think this TV program
is very unfair to me.

1017
00:56:43,230 --> 00:56:44,870
It's out of ranking?

1018
00:56:44,890 --> 00:56:49,070
Still it was an innocent answer,
and beautiful.

1019
00:56:49,100 --> 00:56:54,320
Not being able to end it because he felt
guilty about not keeping his promise.

1020
00:56:54,350 --> 00:56:56,510
<i>So innocent.</i>

1021
00:56:56,530 --> 00:56:59,050
Kyung Ho, you said you were
heartbroken because

1022
00:56:59,050 --> 00:57:01,930
you were diligent about remembering
the special days.

1023
00:57:02,220 --> 00:57:06,740
I even thought there was
something wrong with me

1024
00:57:06,770 --> 00:57:09,580
because it happened
three times in a row.

1025
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:16,640
For whatever reason, when they date
me, their family gets into a financial crisis.

1026
00:57:17,530 --> 00:57:20,610
Wow, so you gave them a big one.

1027
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,230
- You paid the debt for them.
- Maybe I am being too honest?

1028
00:57:23,260 --> 00:57:25,340
<i>- No, no, it's okay.
- Then what happened?</i>

1029
00:57:26,140 --> 00:57:29,380
I lose all my defenses when
they cry in front of me.

1030
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:37,260
There were times that I got involved with
their family in order to help them out.

1031
00:57:37,280 --> 00:57:38,680
But later on...

1032
00:57:38,700 --> 00:57:40,470
<i>- You were helping them out.
- Yes.</i>

1033
00:57:40,500 --> 00:57:44,960
So, that means you were
giving them money?

1034
00:57:44,990 --> 00:57:48,220
<i>- Paying their debts.
- Paying their debts?</i>

1035
00:57:48,250 --> 00:57:52,390
When you talk with them, you naturally find
out if they are going through a hard time.

1036
00:57:52,420 --> 00:57:55,860
Did you ask them if they were
going through something?

1037
00:57:55,880 --> 00:58:00,590
She would never say it but
because I kept noticing it.

1038
00:58:00,620 --> 00:58:03,110
<i>- They made you notice it.
- They make you notice it.</i>

1039
00:58:03,140 --> 00:58:04,500
They didn't it say it out loud but...

1040
00:58:04,530 --> 00:58:09,530
You had to ask her because you were probably
holding hands and about to kiss, but she goes

1041
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:13,180
- 'Ah...'
- 'What? What's wrong?'

1042
00:58:13,210 --> 00:58:14,320
They say, 'It's nothing.'

1043
00:58:14,340 --> 00:58:16,150
It's partly your fault as well.

1044
00:58:16,170 --> 00:58:19,030
Honestly, I am easily fooled.

1045
00:58:19,060 --> 00:58:22,510
I tend to be dragged into it even
when I know what's really happening.

1046
00:58:22,530 --> 00:58:26,890
Rather than looking for someone
who's lively, positive and successful...

1047
00:58:26,890 --> 00:58:29,070
he kind of looks for someone who's not

1048
00:58:29,100 --> 00:58:31,510
since you are sympathetic
and kind-hearted.

1049
00:58:31,820 --> 00:58:35,630
He tests women a lot but he doesn't
do that with things that matter.

1050
00:58:35,650 --> 00:58:37,120
That is true.

1051
00:58:37,140 --> 00:58:39,510
I fall for every kind of sob story.

1052
00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:45,200
- Since you've sent many video messages...
- [Again?]

1053
00:58:45,230 --> 00:58:48,210
<i>- To her?
- A video message.</i>

1054
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:49,290
To those who hurt--

1055
00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:51,360
<i>- Can I say it like that?
- Sure.</i>

1056
00:58:51,390 --> 00:58:55,580
After you hurt me, did your
bank account get bigger?

1057
00:58:57,620 --> 00:58:59,360
[Feels so much better.]

1058
00:58:59,390 --> 00:59:04,090
Thanks to you... after that incident...

1059
00:59:04,110 --> 00:59:06,850
I've become...

1060
00:59:06,880 --> 00:59:08,560
much stronger.

1061
00:59:09,670 --> 00:59:15,770
Because of it... I have someone
better than you who loves me.

1062
00:59:17,250 --> 00:59:18,950
Tell her that you'll
invite her to your wedding.

1063
00:59:19,860 --> 00:59:21,890
That's crazy.

1064
00:59:22,450 --> 00:59:24,350
[Now he can laugh at those break ups.]

1065
00:59:25,090 --> 00:59:28,140
The thing that stopped me from
ending my marriage was

1066
00:59:28,170 --> 00:59:29,390
my pride.

1067
00:59:29,420 --> 00:59:33,350
So many think didn't think of our
marriage in a positive light.

1068
00:59:34,570 --> 00:59:40,660
I am far more gentle than before
but I used to be kind of rough.

1069
00:59:45,320 --> 00:59:48,340
'Let see how long it lasts.'
'They can't stay together.'

1070
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,970
Someone bet actual millions of won
on our marriage breaking up soon.

1071
00:59:51,000 --> 00:59:52,100
They were betting...

1072
00:59:52,130 --> 00:59:54,870
I heard some people bet money
that we'd last only six months.

1073
00:59:54,890 --> 01:00:02,190
And so many other people said
that our marriage wouldn't last.

1074
01:00:02,210 --> 01:00:03,830
I wanted to prove them wrong.

1075
01:00:03,850 --> 01:00:08,640
I was fighting against the
doubts like that against myself.

1076
01:00:08,670 --> 01:00:11,260
That made me very patient with
the marriage.

1077
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:13,340
Did it feel like people were
dishonoring your marriage?

1078
01:00:13,370 --> 01:00:16,420
I hated when people treated us that way.

1079
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:18,880
Around that time, a man
marrying someone older was --

1080
01:00:18,910 --> 01:00:20,510
It's the first time it happened.

1081
01:00:20,540 --> 01:00:22,020
<i>- Never happened before.
- Was it?</i>

1082
01:00:23,390 --> 01:00:26,560
- Yes.
- At the time, Noh Sa Yeon was a superstar

1083
01:00:26,590 --> 01:00:30,630
but her husband wasn't very
well known at the time.

1084
01:00:30,650 --> 01:00:33,350
I hated when people thought as
if our marriage meant nothing.

1085
01:00:33,380 --> 01:00:38,460
I thought about finding the person who talks
badly of our marriage and doing this to them.

1086
01:00:38,490 --> 01:00:44,840
I didn't do it, but I was fighting against their
looks and facial expressions that suggested it.

1087
01:00:44,870 --> 01:00:49,100
Not only me, but I think Moo Song
also endured it the way I did.

1088
01:00:49,300 --> 01:00:53,560
A sense of pride helped stop me
from ending the relationship.

1089
01:00:54,650 --> 01:00:59,820
When you got married, because you were a
superstar, many people talked badly of it.

1090
01:00:59,850 --> 01:01:02,950
- Yes, I think we both went through it.
- What did they say the most?

1091
01:01:02,970 --> 01:01:05,910
'Let's see how many years it lasts.'

1092
01:01:05,940 --> 01:01:08,910
And, 'It's marriage once
they hold a wedding.'

1093
01:01:09,790 --> 01:01:13,450
- Marriage announcement...
- Did you know there were rumors like that?

1094
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:18,590
The rumors started after it was on the news.
Don't they tell you?

1095
01:01:18,610 --> 01:01:22,520
But who tells you that? Don't
they usually not know about it?

1096
01:01:22,550 --> 01:01:25,080
Reporters who were
close to me told me.

1097
01:01:25,100 --> 01:01:28,880
There are people who relay that information
but it's not a good way to find out about it.

1098
01:01:28,910 --> 01:01:31,560
<i>- There are people who tell you about it.
- Yes, there are.</i>

1099
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,700
People do talk about you
when you get married.

1100
01:01:35,730 --> 01:01:40,200
Because people who like to
gossip make it sound worse.

1101
01:01:40,230 --> 01:01:42,920
Shall we check your answer, Sa Yeon?

1102
01:01:42,950 --> 01:01:49,410
'Feeling a sense of pride or wanting
to prove the doubters wrong.'

1103
01:01:49,430 --> 01:01:51,760
Let's check the answer!

1104
01:01:51,780 --> 01:01:53,170
[Out of ranking]

1105
01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:55,410
<i>It was out of ranking.</i>

1106
01:01:55,440 --> 01:01:58,630
- How long have you been married?
- It's been 20 years now.

1107
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:02,230
When you get to my age and
20 years into the marriage

1108
01:02:02,260 --> 01:02:04,680
the love you lost comes back.

1109
01:02:04,710 --> 01:02:08,150
It comes back in a different
form of love.

1110
01:02:08,170 --> 01:02:11,900
So I hope young people could be
a little more patient.

1111
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:17,980
You may think that it wasn't a good
decision to marry when you're angry but

1112
01:02:18,000 --> 01:02:19,310
that's not true.

1113
01:02:19,330 --> 01:02:24,130
A person's love always changes,
but love can come back.

1114
01:02:24,160 --> 01:02:27,530
Because you have so much
passion, you might be --

1115
01:02:27,560 --> 01:02:29,510
It's been a while since
I got married, as well.

1116
01:02:29,530 --> 01:02:31,190
<i>- How long?
- Seven years.</i>

1117
01:02:31,210 --> 01:02:32,640
Seven years?

1118
01:02:32,670 --> 01:02:35,810
This should be the year.
Third, fifth, seventh and ninth year.

1119
01:02:36,170 --> 01:02:39,380
Three, five, seven and nine.
Oh, three, five, seven and nine.

1120
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,680
It was the first, third, fifth
and seventh year for me.

1121
01:02:41,710 --> 01:02:43,100
It started on your first year?

1122
01:02:43,100 --> 01:02:45,850
For me, it was the third, fifth,
seventh and ninth year of marriage.

1123
01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:47,220
When it happened, I had no idea --

1124
01:02:47,250 --> 01:02:48,630
It's different for everyone.

1125
01:02:48,650 --> 01:02:50,050
<i>How about yours?</i>

1126
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:53,910
One, two, three, four, five, six and seven.

1127
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:57,680
[You're killing me.]

1128
01:02:57,710 --> 01:02:59,650
I think it was the third, fifth,
seventh and ninth years.

1129
01:02:59,670 --> 01:03:02,820
Third and fifth months.

1130
01:03:04,500 --> 01:03:07,160
I was wondering why you chose
such a big unit of measurement.

1131
01:03:07,180 --> 01:03:09,850
So you count by the month...

1132
01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:11,680
I am worried about next month.

1133
01:03:11,710 --> 01:03:13,490
<i>The second half.</i>

1134
01:03:14,140 --> 01:03:16,330
For me, I think it's a good idea.

1135
01:03:16,400 --> 01:03:18,470
At first you're always together.

1136
01:03:18,630 --> 01:03:23,840
In the beginning, stay close to
each other for about a year or two.

1137
01:03:23,870 --> 01:03:27,660
- You stayed close for too long, right?
- Yes, six years...

1138
01:03:30,710 --> 01:03:34,680
When we started talking about
marriage, it just sounds horrible.

1139
01:03:34,710 --> 01:03:36,850
<i>That's right.</i>

1140
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:44,490
In my case, I've always thought that
men shouldn't ask women to break up.

1141
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:47,900
It's better to hear it from them,
but if we were to say it--

1142
01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:49,300
You think it's too cruel?

1143
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:50,680
Then how do you end it?

1144
01:03:50,710 --> 01:03:52,950
<i>- The alternative is far worse...
- That's true.</i>

1145
01:03:52,970 --> 01:03:56,320
I make sure that she
tells me that first.

1146
01:03:56,350 --> 01:03:57,470
Right.

1147
01:03:57,470 --> 01:03:59,150
Ji Yong, so the way you do it is?

1148
01:03:59,170 --> 01:04:01,530
- Tell them you're sick?
- I want to be a less of a bad guy.

1149
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:04,270
You tell them you are sick and busy?

1150
01:04:04,300 --> 01:04:06,000
<i>- Yes...
- And talking less with her?</i>

1151
01:04:06,020 --> 01:04:07,920
It does... because I am sick.

1152
01:04:08,900 --> 01:04:11,490
I have to remain sick.

1153
01:04:11,520 --> 01:04:14,730
I am sure she brings you medicine
in the beginning, right?

1154
01:04:14,760 --> 01:04:16,340
Because she's concerned.

1155
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:19,210
'No, I need to be alone
and I have to sleep.'

1156
01:04:19,240 --> 01:04:24,480
And one of the things that men, who are
bored of being married, does is this...

1157
01:04:24,510 --> 01:04:27,880
'Yeah...' They respond
in single words.

1158
01:04:27,910 --> 01:04:29,900
'Yeah, watching TV...'

1159
01:04:31,190 --> 01:04:34,480
- Oh, like that?
- In the beginning, 'Yes, I am watching TV.'

1160
01:04:34,510 --> 01:04:37,490
After a while, 'Yeah, watching TV...'

1161
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:39,750
[It drains the person who's talking to them.]

1162
01:04:39,780 --> 01:04:41,920
- 'What are you watching?'
- 'Hwasin, Hwasin...'

1163
01:04:41,950 --> 01:04:44,140
By doing this, I'm sure they
know what's happening.

1164
01:04:44,170 --> 01:04:47,560
- Did she also?
- She did.

1165
01:04:47,580 --> 01:04:51,160
- Not at first.
- Because you told me you were sick...

1166
01:04:51,980 --> 01:04:54,880
'Is it because you don't want to
see me?' What if she asks you...

1167
01:04:54,910 --> 01:04:56,660
'No, I miss you...'

1168
01:04:56,680 --> 01:04:58,560
'Do you want me to be there?'

1169
01:04:58,580 --> 01:05:01,460
'You might catch my cold...'

1170
01:05:02,800 --> 01:05:04,780
This sounds like he's worried about me.

1171
01:05:04,810 --> 01:05:09,420
- What if this continues to--
- So tactless.

1172
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,230
I would like to think that
he's worried about me.

1173
01:05:14,250 --> 01:05:20,000
I think men are kind of
mean and cowardly in that--

1174
01:05:20,030 --> 01:05:23,310
- The men who are bored of the relationship.
- True.

1175
01:05:23,340 --> 01:05:28,200
I think I waited for her
to make a mistake.

1176
01:05:29,500 --> 01:05:31,390
[What...?]

1177
01:05:31,420 --> 01:05:34,160
<i>What he is talking about now?</i>

1178
01:05:34,180 --> 01:05:38,530
They are such experts in breaking up.

1179
01:05:41,040 --> 01:05:44,960
Doesn't everyone start to control
the other when they start dating?

1180
01:05:45,500 --> 01:05:47,980
They tell you the things
they hate about you?

1181
01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:51,060
Doing things that I told her not to do.

1182
01:05:51,080 --> 01:05:53,090
'I told you not to drink more than this.'

1183
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:55,210
'I told you to call me if
you were going to be late.'

1184
01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:57,350
And she knows that he will go to a
staff party that offers alcohol.

1185
01:05:57,370 --> 01:05:58,840
She knows he loves to drink.

1186
01:05:58,870 --> 01:06:00,860
'As soon as you sound drunk...'

1187
01:06:01,960 --> 01:06:03,800
Something like that?
Like that?

1188
01:06:03,820 --> 01:06:06,290
It takes more than once.

1189
01:06:07,400 --> 01:06:11,620
'It seems you're beyond hope.'

1190
01:06:12,670 --> 01:06:15,590
Jong Shin's acting is great today.

1191
01:06:16,740 --> 01:06:18,770
'You are beyond rescue, aren't you?'

1192
01:06:20,770 --> 01:06:22,200
[It would be a cruel
break up for women.]

1193
01:06:22,220 --> 01:06:24,440
<i>Is it too cruel?</i>

1194
01:06:24,460 --> 01:06:27,000
Do you know what is the easiest way?

1195
01:06:27,030 --> 01:06:28,730
You ask them for money.

1196
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:31,000
<i>Really?</i>

1197
01:06:31,030 --> 01:06:33,950
Say that something happened
in your family.

1198
01:06:33,970 --> 01:06:36,620
If you ask women for money,
they drop you just like that.

1199
01:06:37,520 --> 01:06:39,050
[Feels it in his heart...]

1200
01:06:39,730 --> 01:06:43,770
Then, could it be that they asked you for money
because they wanted to break up with you...

1201
01:06:43,790 --> 01:06:45,980
but you gave them money anyway?

1202
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:47,850
<i>Oh, so tactless.</i>

1203
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:51,240
He lost everything.
He lost money and love.

1204
01:06:54,900 --> 01:06:57,050
Women end relationships
differently, don't they?

1205
01:06:57,080 --> 01:06:58,200
Women?

1206
01:06:58,230 --> 01:07:00,310
- Yes, they do.
- I don't think they drag it out.

1207
01:07:00,340 --> 01:07:03,090
I think they tell it straight out.

1208
01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:05,870
'I am so sick and tired of you!'

1209
01:07:05,890 --> 01:07:08,290
<i>That's a scene from a TV commercial.</i>

1210
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:10,850
You wanted to say that all day, right?

1211
01:07:12,510 --> 01:07:17,520
'Acting mean toward her
or people around her.'

1212
01:07:17,540 --> 01:07:19,960
<i>Let's check the answer!</i>

1213
01:07:19,990 --> 01:07:21,800
[First place for men]

1214
01:07:21,820 --> 01:07:24,850
Wow, that's the answer?

1215
01:07:24,880 --> 01:07:28,810
Yes, that's right.
I can totally relate to that.

1216
01:07:28,830 --> 01:07:31,200
Women tell it straight out,
but men don't.

1217
01:07:31,220 --> 01:07:34,050
Men are courageous when
they start in the beginning

1218
01:07:34,070 --> 01:07:37,460
- but want to avoid ending it.
- That's right.

1219
01:07:37,490 --> 01:07:38,700
That's so cowardly.

1220
01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:45,590
That means if ladies think they're the ones
who ended it, that could be an illusion, right?

1221
01:07:46,740 --> 01:07:53,570
In my case, if my man was to pretend
to be sick because he got bored

1222
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,360
then I would ask to break up, right?

1223
01:07:56,390 --> 01:08:00,960
But if the man started to date another
woman just after the break up...

1224
01:08:00,990 --> 01:08:04,660
- wouldn't it bug you?
- I would be so angry.

1225
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:08,090
Right? If he dates another woman
as if he was waiting for it.

1226
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:10,740
I would feel offended even if
I was the one who ended it.

1227
01:08:10,770 --> 01:08:14,700
But everything was in
the plan all along...

1228
01:08:14,730 --> 01:08:17,960
- That he was sick...
- [Me?]

1229
01:08:17,990 --> 01:08:20,710
<i>- Yes, being sick and busy.
- Yes.</i>

1230
01:08:20,740 --> 01:08:22,840
[She was talking about me...]

1231
01:08:22,860 --> 01:08:29,250
I think men enjoy feeling as if they
are the lead character of a tragedy.

1232
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,810
They get drunk and sing sad songs.

1233
01:08:31,840 --> 01:08:34,170
<i>- Feeling as if the song is for them.
- Right, right.</i>

1234
01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:37,220
When women look at that,
that makes them fall for him.

1235
01:08:37,250 --> 01:08:39,150
<i>- Yes...
- That's true...</i>

1236
01:08:40,020 --> 01:08:43,190
That's how the earth keeps on spinning.

1237
01:08:43,210 --> 01:08:45,940
The earth is spinning
very well because of it.

1238
01:08:45,960 --> 01:08:52,020
Do you end it by meeting with her in
person or talking to her on the phone?

1239
01:08:52,830 --> 01:08:54,690
I couldn't say it in person.

1240
01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:56,650
I phoned him as well.

1241
01:08:56,680 --> 01:09:01,840
I tried to talk in person when
we met for the last time.

1242
01:09:01,860 --> 01:09:05,420
You could end it by calling but...

1243
01:09:05,450 --> 01:09:10,830
I think it might be good to
end it by talking in person.

1244
01:09:11,490 --> 01:09:14,260
It is a hard way to go about it.

1245
01:09:14,290 --> 01:09:16,890
I couldn't get myself
to do it before but...

1246
01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:20,390
having done it, I think that's
a little better of a way to go.

1247
01:09:20,420 --> 01:09:26,600
In my case, I used to end the relationship
in person in the beginning but...

1248
01:09:26,630 --> 01:09:30,170
talking about it in person made
it become like a drama.

1249
01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:36,180
He would cry and say, 'Thank you for the
memories,' and it started to feel like a drama.

1250
01:09:36,210 --> 01:09:37,810
I think it was a little weird.

1251
01:09:37,830 --> 01:09:42,270
There are instances where that's
when the love rekindles again.

1252
01:09:42,650 --> 01:09:49,230
I think the purpose of taking some time apart
is to hope for a better future, right?

1253
01:09:49,900 --> 01:09:56,170
After spending some time apart, if you
still feel you need be with that person

1254
01:09:56,200 --> 01:10:00,310
I think that allows for an
even deeper relationship.

1255
01:10:00,330 --> 01:10:06,870
And if doing that doesn't change anything
in them, I think it's better to separate.

1256
01:10:08,010 --> 01:10:10,210
I don't know if I should
say this on air, but...

1257
01:10:11,640 --> 01:10:13,320
<i>You are going to say it anyway.</i>

1258
01:10:13,340 --> 01:10:15,620
Things that hold your ankle back.

1259
01:10:16,270 --> 01:10:18,280
Ankle...

1260
01:10:19,140 --> 01:10:22,010
When Dong Yup put it like that,
he means something way out there.

1261
01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:24,090
No, as Sa Yeon mentioned...

1262
01:10:24,110 --> 01:10:27,350
- Marital compatibility.
- 'Inner-compatibility.'

1263
01:10:27,380 --> 01:10:29,220
Because it's good for them.

1264
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:33,700
Sometimes I wonder,
'How did they become a couple?'

1265
01:10:33,730 --> 01:10:36,770
'How could they be a couple?'

1266
01:10:36,800 --> 01:10:41,120
'I am sure something is
compatible about them.'

1267
01:10:41,150 --> 01:10:43,770
Please don't look at me like that.

1268
01:10:43,800 --> 01:10:46,470
Why would you re-enact
something like that?

1269
01:10:46,490 --> 01:10:47,770
But they do say it like that.

1270
01:10:47,790 --> 01:10:49,410
<i>Looking at me like that.</i>

1271
01:10:49,990 --> 01:10:53,380
Let me ask the young people.
Is it important?

1272
01:10:54,860 --> 01:10:56,330
[What]

1273
01:10:56,350 --> 01:10:57,810
[What Should]

1274
01:10:57,840 --> 01:10:59,820
[What Should I]

1275
01:10:59,850 --> 01:11:01,550
[What Should I Say?]

1276
01:11:01,580 --> 01:11:03,080
[Awkwardness that freezes time.]

1277
01:11:03,100 --> 01:11:06,020
So the reason why you
decided to marry is...

1278
01:11:08,460 --> 01:11:10,470
Let me ask you this way.

1279
01:11:10,490 --> 01:11:15,200
Everything is perfect except for the
'inner-compatibility.' Can you still be in love?

1280
01:11:20,210 --> 01:11:23,610
- Kyung Ho, tell me.
- Isn't it important for adults?

1281
01:11:26,970 --> 01:11:36,820
To be honest, for adults... it would be
good to have that compatibility, right?

1282
01:11:37,370 --> 01:11:39,710
Do... you...

1283
01:11:39,740 --> 01:11:42,910
Did you... before you married her...

1284
01:11:44,380 --> 01:11:47,620
I stayed with her two months before...
I married her.

1285
01:11:47,650 --> 01:11:49,980
We stayed together two
months before our wedding.

1286
01:11:50,000 --> 01:11:51,800
So we lived together.

1287
01:11:51,830 --> 01:11:55,360
Wouldn't it difficult if you
feel it's incompatible?

1288
01:11:55,390 --> 01:11:59,090
The most important thing
is your character.

1289
01:12:00,390 --> 01:12:04,250
[Platonic Dong Yup]

1290
01:12:04,280 --> 01:12:08,520
You know, he is the TV personality
with the best character in the nation.

1291
01:12:08,540 --> 01:12:10,890
[You do feel awkward, right?]

1292
01:12:10,920 --> 01:12:12,470
His acting job was so...

1293
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:17,510
'Because of the kind of
compatibility you cannot let go.'

1294
01:12:17,530 --> 01:12:19,990
Martial compatibility.
Inner-compatibility.

1295
01:12:20,020 --> 01:12:21,970
<i>Let's check the answer.</i>

1296
01:12:21,990 --> 01:12:23,910
[Out of ranking]

1297
01:12:23,940 --> 01:12:26,920
<i>Nobody even brought it up
in the surveys.</i>

1298
01:12:26,950 --> 01:12:30,570
What holds women back from
ending a relationship?

1299
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:33,330
Let's say she loves him so much but

1300
01:12:33,350 --> 01:12:36,010
he has a fatal flaw.

1301
01:12:36,030 --> 01:12:40,270
I really hate it when someone
tells me even the smallest lies.

1302
01:12:40,300 --> 01:12:45,700
When I thought he wouldn't lie anymore, he lied,
when I thought he wouldn't lie, he lies again.

1303
01:12:45,730 --> 01:12:51,560
I didn't break up because I was
hoping that he would change.

1304
01:12:51,590 --> 01:12:53,800
'He will change soon.'

1305
01:12:53,820 --> 01:12:57,020
- It sounds like sympathy.
- It is. She can't let him go.

1306
01:12:57,050 --> 01:12:58,430
What kind of lies?

1307
01:12:58,450 --> 01:13:02,430
When it comes to men, it's almost
always about drinking and women, right?

1308
01:13:02,460 --> 01:13:04,990
- But--
- You don't get obsessive about it, right?

1309
01:13:05,020 --> 01:13:08,370
- No, I don't.
- So why would he lie?

1310
01:13:08,390 --> 01:13:11,270
A man has a friend that he
hangs out with, right?

1311
01:13:11,290 --> 01:13:19,310
When he does things out of his circle, he either
gets teased or insulted because of it, right?

1312
01:13:19,340 --> 01:13:24,480
One day, he told me he's going to eat
roasted pork belly with his friends.

1313
01:13:24,510 --> 01:13:27,950
But I could hear that he
was talking in a bathroom.

1314
01:13:27,970 --> 01:13:30,180
Didn't it sound like a restaurant?

1315
01:13:30,210 --> 01:13:32,770
It sounds like a bathroom
that's in a pub, right?

1316
01:13:32,790 --> 01:13:35,160
I could hear people around him.

1317
01:13:35,170 --> 01:13:40,190
'It's strange. It sounds like you're in a
bathroom. Why is that?' I asked him.

1318
01:13:40,750 --> 01:13:46,030
'Oh, the bathroom is right
beside our table,' he said.

1319
01:13:46,060 --> 01:13:48,770
'Which restaurant did you go to?'
I asked him.

1320
01:13:48,790 --> 01:13:52,210
He told me where the restaurant is.

1321
01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:55,990
But I knew which restaurant
he was talking about.

1322
01:13:56,710 --> 01:13:58,460
'Ah, really?'

1323
01:13:58,490 --> 01:14:01,480
- It's sounding obsessive.
- She's making me want to lie.

1324
01:14:01,510 --> 01:14:03,610
- It's not that.
- You don't let it go.

1325
01:14:03,660 --> 01:14:06,160
It's not that, if he just told me...

1326
01:14:06,190 --> 01:14:07,770
[Incurring men's grievances...]

1327
01:14:07,800 --> 01:14:08,810
No, it's not that.

1328
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:12,010
- It is men vs women after all.
- Oh, too obsessive.

1329
01:14:12,030 --> 01:14:18,210
It's not that. He was trying to make
me look like I was acting strange.

1330
01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:25,920
I was like, 'It's okay to go to a pub.
Don't lie to me. Be honest.'

1331
01:14:25,950 --> 01:14:29,910
'You're weird,' and to his friend he said, 'This
is driving me crazy. My girlfriend is so weird.'

1332
01:14:29,940 --> 01:14:33,220
- Oh my.
- 'She doesn't believe me,' he said.

1333
01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:35,980
That's why I got angry.

1334
01:14:36,010 --> 01:14:39,620
'Are you sure you don't
feel bad about anything?'

1335
01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:44,590
'I don't feel bad. Why should I? This
is just a restaurant' he told me.

1336
01:14:44,610 --> 01:14:47,090
'Okay, have fun,' and I hung up.

1337
01:14:47,110 --> 01:14:49,520
So I went to the restaurant.

1338
01:14:49,540 --> 01:14:51,840
- She went.
- See, she went there.

1339
01:14:51,860 --> 01:14:56,090
- On my way there--
- Did you disguise yourself?

1340
01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:58,530
It's that he has to lie to survive.

1341
01:14:58,560 --> 01:15:00,790
No, what I was thinking
on my way was...

1342
01:15:00,810 --> 01:15:03,270
'Please be there...'

1343
01:15:03,290 --> 01:15:09,980
'Please be there eating roast pork belly. I hope
I am the one who's acting strange and weird.'

1344
01:15:10,010 --> 01:15:12,720
'Please be there,' I thought
to myself but he wasn't there.

1345
01:15:14,620 --> 01:15:17,920
I felt upset so I called him, 'I am at
the restaurant, but I can't find you.'

1346
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:20,880
I felt so sad.

1347
01:15:20,910 --> 01:15:22,650
'I can't find you. Where are you?'

1348
01:15:22,670 --> 01:15:27,350
He was drinking in the pub
beside that restaurant.

1349
01:15:27,380 --> 01:15:31,890
- That was mean.
- I felt so upset at the way he talked to me.

1350
01:15:31,920 --> 01:15:38,940
I feel so stupid and foolish that I just
hoped that he would be at that restaurant.

1351
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:42,370
How many men can tell their girlfriends
that they are drinking at a pub?

1352
01:15:42,390 --> 01:15:44,040
That would be upsetting to hear too.

1353
01:15:44,070 --> 01:15:47,130
Being too honest can upset you as well.

1354
01:15:47,160 --> 01:15:48,840
I don't think it's easy to
tell the truth sometimes.

1355
01:15:48,870 --> 01:15:54,030
But I think it's alright if he
acts in a trustworthy way.

1356
01:15:54,060 --> 01:15:56,780
A reason for lying...
I hate lies as well.

1357
01:15:56,810 --> 01:16:03,380
When they lie, they don't know trying to avoid
something small will haunt them 100 times over.

1358
01:16:03,410 --> 01:16:06,120
There are times like this when

1359
01:16:06,140 --> 01:16:13,210
men lose the timing
to tell the truth about it.

1360
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:16,790
It hurts their pride to
tell the truth after that.

1361
01:16:16,820 --> 01:16:20,120
<i>- I think that was it.
- So when that happens...</i>

1362
01:16:20,150 --> 01:16:23,480
I think both parties should
give each other a break?

1363
01:16:23,500 --> 01:16:26,040
<i>- I think it's necessary...
- It's about being wise.</i>

1364
01:16:26,060 --> 01:16:29,120
I think men need to be wise as well.

1365
01:16:29,140 --> 01:16:31,250
- 'Hello?'
- 'I am at a restaurant.'

1366
01:16:31,290 --> 01:16:32,950
- 'Really?'
- 'I am at a restaurant.'

1367
01:16:32,970 --> 01:16:35,870
- 'Really?'
- 'I am at a pub...'

1368
01:16:35,900 --> 01:16:38,800
- If he handled it like that.
- If you do this.

1369
01:16:38,820 --> 01:16:42,640
- I can just laugh and forgive.
- Because that's cute.

1370
01:16:42,670 --> 01:16:44,800
But he says it like this instead

1371
01:16:44,820 --> 01:16:47,330
'What?' That's when it becomes worse.

1372
01:16:47,350 --> 01:16:50,040
How was he after that?

1373
01:16:50,070 --> 01:16:53,660
I went straight home.

1374
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,800
I felt so upset and
cried myself to sleep.

1375
01:16:56,820 --> 01:17:00,180
The next day, he waited all night
for me in front of my house.

1376
01:17:00,210 --> 01:17:01,600
He came to my house.

1377
01:17:01,630 --> 01:17:04,200
He was asking for forgiveness.

1378
01:17:04,230 --> 01:17:07,130
<i>- I forgave him like a dummy.
- That's what I mean.</i>

1379
01:17:07,160 --> 01:17:13,660
I kept on dating him hoping he wouldn't lie
next time or the next time or the next time.

1380
01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:18,140
It seems like he can change and you
know what his strengths are as well.

1381
01:17:18,170 --> 01:17:20,620
'Because I hope she can change.'

1382
01:17:20,650 --> 01:17:23,530
<i>- Because of that hope.
- Because of that hope.</i>

1383
01:17:25,450 --> 01:17:27,660
[Pretty]

1384
01:17:27,690 --> 01:17:31,480
It's within ranking and fourth place.

1385
01:17:31,510 --> 01:17:37,220
'When his/her flaw appears
to be changeable.'

1386
01:17:37,240 --> 01:17:40,860
It's like, 'He needs me to change that.'

1387
01:17:40,890 --> 01:17:43,200
Because you've been with him a while.

1388
01:17:43,220 --> 01:17:45,480
<i>It's because you love him.</i>

1389
01:17:45,500 --> 01:17:49,910
Men think women don't know about it.

1390
01:17:49,930 --> 01:17:51,920
- But they know.
- We do.

1391
01:17:51,950 --> 01:17:53,590
We know everything.

1392
01:17:53,620 --> 01:17:55,370
<i>- Everything...
- That's right.</i>

1393
01:17:55,390 --> 01:18:00,290
When I was taking some time apart from a
girlfriend I went out with for a long time

1394
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:05,640
I was... I wasn't going out with
her but I went out to eat with her.

1395
01:18:05,670 --> 01:18:08,440
When I got back with my girlfriend

1396
01:18:08,460 --> 01:18:10,370
we were talking about things.

1397
01:18:10,400 --> 01:18:16,800
'Don't go around and eat meals with
the people you don't know,' she said.

1398
01:18:16,830 --> 01:18:22,830
'I've never done that. I haven't
done that with anybody,' I replied.

1399
01:18:22,850 --> 01:18:26,560
'Okay, I see. I'm just saying you shouldn't
because you never know what might happen.'

1400
01:18:26,580 --> 01:18:28,110
Oh, she knew it.

1401
01:18:28,140 --> 01:18:30,410
So I thought, 'How does she...'

1402
01:18:30,440 --> 01:18:34,440
'I didn't. I haven't done
anything like that,' I told her.

1403
01:18:34,460 --> 01:18:37,560
She mentioned the name.

1404
01:18:37,590 --> 01:18:40,450
'Her. So I don't want you to
do that anymore,' she said.

1405
01:18:40,780 --> 01:18:42,350
[Sigh...]

1406
01:18:42,380 --> 01:18:47,300
In moments like this, do you acknowledge it?
There are men who deny it once more.

1407
01:18:47,340 --> 01:18:49,770
<i>- I didn't deny it.
- You should say</i>

1408
01:18:49,790 --> 01:18:52,320
'Ah, her. Yes!'

1409
01:18:52,340 --> 01:18:54,360
<i>That's it.</i>

1410
01:18:54,390 --> 01:18:57,600
If you say that, they let it go.

1411
01:18:57,610 --> 01:18:59,310
I was like...

1412
01:18:59,330 --> 01:19:01,800
[Going straight to self-reflective mode.]

1413
01:19:03,490 --> 01:19:05,480
[Things that hold you back when you
want to break it up immediately.]

1414
01:19:05,510 --> 01:19:08,600
It's time to guess the top answer for
women. I think men are more...

1415
01:19:09,760 --> 01:19:13,670
I think... men are more...

1416
01:19:13,690 --> 01:19:16,250
- I think men are more sophisticated.
- Really?

1417
01:19:16,280 --> 01:19:18,490
- I think women are simple.
- How come?

1418
01:19:18,510 --> 01:19:23,710
When I looked at the top answer for women,
I thought it's a simple reason for women.

1419
01:19:24,480 --> 01:19:26,330
<i>Right!</i>

1420
01:19:26,360 --> 01:19:28,470
[It is almost there...]

1421
01:19:28,500 --> 01:19:32,020
- A hint might be, 'Olympic?'
- 88, Hodolee?

1422
01:19:32,040 --> 01:19:35,460
- 400 meters.
- Relay?

1423
01:19:35,500 --> 01:19:38,480
<i>- Women need someone to pass the baton.
- Someone to relay it to.</i>

1424
01:19:38,510 --> 01:19:40,700
They don't have the next runner.

1425
01:19:40,720 --> 01:19:42,320
Which means they need to finish the race.

1426
01:19:42,340 --> 01:19:45,770
- That's it!
- That is it, Dae Sung!

1427
01:19:45,790 --> 01:19:47,410
So what's the answer?

1428
01:19:47,430 --> 01:19:48,940
They don't have the next runner.

1429
01:19:48,970 --> 01:19:50,860
It's because they don't have the next runner.
That's too much to handle.

1430
01:19:50,890 --> 01:19:53,070
Right, right. I think so too!

1431
01:19:53,090 --> 01:19:54,650
They don't have a new guy.

1432
01:19:54,680 --> 01:19:57,320
Because it's too lonely
and hard being alone.

1433
01:19:57,340 --> 01:19:59,170
Being alone...

1434
01:19:59,200 --> 01:20:02,210
<i>- Let's check the answer!
- This has to be it.</i>

1435
01:20:02,240 --> 01:20:04,780
[First place for women]

1436
01:20:04,800 --> 01:20:07,620
It is the answer.

1437
01:20:07,650 --> 01:20:11,080
Yes, it's because they don't have the
replacement if they were to end it.

1438
01:20:11,110 --> 01:20:13,570
Wow, that scares me.

1439
01:20:13,590 --> 01:20:16,040
<i>That is so cruel.</i>

1440
01:20:16,070 --> 01:20:19,230
Wait, 1,425 men voted for the answer.

1441
01:20:19,260 --> 01:20:23,180
<i>It's a small percentage but 3,882
women voted for their top answer.</i>

1442
01:20:25,320 --> 01:20:26,490
That's so cruel.

1443
01:20:26,510 --> 01:20:28,520
Men, don't delude yourselves.

1444
01:20:28,550 --> 01:20:33,940
The reason why she wouldn't end it when
you got so bored in the relationship is

1445
01:20:33,970 --> 01:20:36,580
because she doesn't have
the replacement yet.

1446
01:20:36,610 --> 01:20:38,710
It's not because she likes you.

1447
01:20:38,730 --> 01:20:41,420
- You should wake up.
- That's so mean.

1448
01:20:42,430 --> 01:20:48,170
Then put it this way, 'When you go buy a new
pair of shoes, you can't go buy them barefoot.

1449
01:20:48,190 --> 01:20:52,210
Ah, that's true.

1450
01:20:52,230 --> 01:20:54,960
[I can't believe this...]

1451
01:20:54,990 --> 01:20:58,140
[Even if it makes sense...]

1452
01:20:58,160 --> 01:21:01,950
[I don't want to believe this...]

1453
01:21:01,970 --> 01:21:03,960
<i>This was what I thought.</i>

1454
01:21:03,990 --> 01:21:06,570
The boyfriend who lied to you...

1455
01:21:06,590 --> 01:21:10,850
you kept it going because you
wanted to changed him but...

1456
01:21:10,870 --> 01:21:14,000
<i>- you didn't have someone to replace him?
- That you didn't have...</i>

1457
01:21:14,030 --> 01:21:16,720
No, that wasn't it.

1458
01:21:16,750 --> 01:21:19,820
Of course not, if it was so,
that would make her look bad.

1459
01:21:19,850 --> 01:21:22,840
I am sorry. I am sorry.

1460
01:21:22,860 --> 01:21:25,500
You handled it very well.

1461
01:21:25,530 --> 01:21:29,850
I got nervous when she was about
to answer. Well done...

1462
01:21:29,890 --> 01:21:31,520
[Rest of the answers]

1463
01:21:31,540 --> 01:21:34,360
[15th for men, 20th for women: Because I
bought him/her too many things to end it.]

1464
01:21:34,390 --> 01:21:37,310
[29th for women: Psychic told me I will
be more miserable with another man.]

1465
01:21:37,330 --> 01:21:40,230
[17th for men: Something bad
happened to her all of a sudden.]

1466
01:21:40,260 --> 01:21:43,210
I recently officiated someone's wedding.

1467
01:21:43,230 --> 01:21:46,060
I wanted to ask you about it.
How was it?

1468
01:21:46,080 --> 01:21:51,110
Having been married for 20 years, I think
the most important thing for any couple is

1469
01:21:51,140 --> 01:21:54,570
if you seek to understand, then
you can get through anything.

1470
01:21:54,590 --> 01:21:58,830
But if you seek to misunderstand,
no couple can ever last.

1471
01:21:58,860 --> 01:22:03,350
I would like you to
seek to understand.

1472
01:22:03,380 --> 01:22:07,990
Once I started to seek to understand,
my husband started to look so charming.

1473
01:22:08,020 --> 01:22:11,080
<i>I am regretting that I
once misunderstood him.</i>

1474
01:22:11,110 --> 01:22:14,030
I think it's important
not to expect too much.

1475
01:22:14,620 --> 01:22:16,660
Don't expect too much.

1476
01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:21,000
They even call it, 'wedding,' right.
It's a present progressive, right?

1477
01:22:21,030 --> 01:22:22,170
Yes, it ends with '-ing.'

1478
01:22:22,190 --> 01:22:25,670
They call it that because
it's built day by day.

1479
01:22:25,700 --> 01:22:27,600
That's means it's incomplete, right?

1480
01:22:27,620 --> 01:22:30,280
Build your happiness today.

1481
01:22:31,680 --> 01:22:36,720
[Love begins as something sweet
for both men and women but...]

1482
01:22:36,750 --> 01:22:42,780
[the end of love hurts as if
you are walking barefoot...]

1483
01:22:42,800 --> 01:22:47,050
[We fall in love again because of...]

1484
01:22:47,080 --> 01:22:48,380
[the power of love]

1485
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:51,720
<i>Are you in the process of ending
or starting your love life?</i>

1486
01:22:51,750 --> 01:22:55,610
Which ever it is, I envy
you who's in love.

1487
01:22:55,640 --> 01:22:59,600
On a spring day like today,
let us all be loving.

1488
01:22:59,630 --> 01:23:02,270
Starting this month, I
do my solo concert.

1489
01:23:02,300 --> 01:23:04,510
I start a world tour beginning in Korea.

1490
01:23:04,540 --> 01:23:08,510
I do a full tour in Japan.

1491
01:23:08,540 --> 01:23:12,210
I left After School to be a solo musician.
I'll be releasing my own album soon.

1492
01:23:12,230 --> 01:23:13,680
<i>Your own album.</i>

1493
01:23:13,700 --> 01:23:18,140
Mine is already out and it's been
four years since my last one.

1494
01:23:18,160 --> 01:23:21,180
I just recently passed
through menopause.

1495
01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:22,880
[Congratulations]

1496
01:23:22,910 --> 01:23:27,050
I'll return to you as a healthy person
singing a healthy song for you.

1497
01:23:27,080 --> 01:23:29,080
Thank you.